"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women are crazy!

Groverz

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Well we all knew that.

Just felt like venting, been spinning a few plates and I have made it clear to them that there is no chance in hell I am going to be committed, they even refer to me as a toy, which I am fine with. But I feel it goes in one ear and out the other, I can see their reactions when I talk to other girls, it's getting annoying. I don't want to piss off any of them or hurt them but at the same time I don't want to not do what I want to do because someone else does not want to listen to me.

Like is said many times here, listen to their actions not their words.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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iamnobody

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You're dangling the carrot in front of them. That's the proper way to do it, man.
They hear what you say, but they don't get it and think "Uh, oh, I have to get this guy" My guess is you get better sex now.
 
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