"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women are crazy!

Groverz

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Well we all knew that.

Just felt like venting, been spinning a few plates and I have made it clear to them that there is no chance in hell I am going to be committed, they even refer to me as a toy, which I am fine with. But I feel it goes in one ear and out the other, I can see their reactions when I talk to other girls, it's getting annoying. I don't want to piss off any of them or hurt them but at the same time I don't want to not do what I want to do because someone else does not want to listen to me.

Like is said many times here, listen to their actions not their words.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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iamnobody

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You're dangling the carrot in front of them. That's the proper way to do it, man.
They hear what you say, but they don't get it and think "Uh, oh, I have to get this guy" My guess is you get better sex now.
 
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