"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The same girl will treat everyone differently and will change her boundaries accordingly or when it suits her. Men do this too.....but women are notorious game changers.

I met this girl who says she only wants a cowboy. She says loves a cowboy and wants a cowboy who likes fishing and hunting and country music and wears a big cowboy hat.

She talks to a guy who is not a cowboy but likes the country lifestyle(close enough) but rejects him.
However, another guy comes along and is a city slicker and knows nothing about country and lives in an urban setting. Whom does she choose? You guess it. The city slicker because he is more handsome.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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OP a core fact we discuss often here is don't pay attention to what women say, pay attention to what they do. Your example is 100% applicable to that.
 

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The same girl will treat everyone differently and will change her boundaries accordingly or when it suits her. Men do this too.....but women are notorious game changers.

I met this girl who says she only wants a cowboy. She says loves a cowboy and wants a cowboy who likes fishing and hunting and country music and wears a big cowboy hat.

She talks to a guy who is not a cowboy but likes the country lifestyle(close enough) but rejects him.
However, another guy comes along and is a city slicker and knows nothing about country and lives in an urban setting. Whom does she choose? You guess it. The city slicker because he is more handsome.

Mate, looks have very little to do with anything. She simply was more invested in the city slicker which is why she changed for him. His secret isn't safe though, because we have discussed it in another thread. If you are interested in getting a woman to change for you then..


Read my thread:


"All it takes is two things to make her love you forever"
 

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Th4e classic is I don't want an ******* but everyone I have been with has been an *******....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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