Women are cold as ice( and that's oke)

[Gamisch]

It amazing how cold women really are. I keep making the mistake of seeing beauty for softness.

The trick is to realize.how cold women are /can be without falling into the blackpill pitt of becoming scared.

 

[jhonny9546]

When they come to you with that feminine behaviour, like a cat, you're immediately turned on, by your masculine nature.
So you have to stop this "desire" or channel into something else, and try to see em as cold.
Some people get this naturally, and get women.
For some, it's hard work, and those are called the nice guys.

 

[Macadellic]

Become cold yourself and walk when there isn’t high interest on her part, she does the bare minimum, and or at the first subtle sign of disrespect.

Stay King.

 

[jhonny9546]

Become cold yourself and walk when there isn’t high interest on her part, she does the bare minimum, and or at the first subtle sign of disrespect.

Stay King.

I just can't understand a situation where the guy is cold, and the women show investiment and respect, but he still cold, and she still show investiment.
Is this very rare?

 

[Macadellic]

The greater Los Angeles area is filled with cold disrespectful woman but I no longer live there and only visit.

@jhonny9546 didn’t quote your question

 

[jhonny9546]

The greater Los Angeles area is filled with cold disrespectful woman but I no longer live there and only visit.

@jhonny9546 didn’t quote your question

This is common in modern itay too. It's all about social media has shaped women minds

 

[BaronOfHair]

It amazing how cold women really are. I keep making the mistake of seeing beauty for softness.

The trick is to realize.how cold women are /can be without falling into the blackpill pitt of becoming scared.

Yep. Women are investments, and like ALL investments, carry with them risks. Thus, it's shrewd to approach them in a fashion similar to

12:33-13:30 Don't get overly emotional when things don't pan out exactly as we initially anticipated. Because they almost never do

 

[TheGambino]

It amazing how cold women really are. I keep making the mistake of seeing beauty for softness.

The trick is to realize.how cold women are /can be without falling into the blackpill pitt of becoming scared.

they only love their children unconditionally

 

[Bokanovsky]

Yep. Women are investments, and like ALL investments, carry with them risks.

Investments? More like amortizable assets

 

[anonymous12345]

It amazing how cold women really are. I keep making the mistake of seeing beauty for softness.

The trick is to realize.how cold women are /can be without falling into the blackpill pitt of becoming scared.

Yeah. Their attitude can damage oneself if one lets it in. I got a useful tip, and it was that women basically play theatre, and that's a good point generally. They act like they don't wanna be fcked, they act like they don't want to be talked to etc. If one as seducer has this theatre mindset it becomes easier. They are just putting on a show that one needs to watch and work through. Requires a good man that knows what he does, use at your own peril.

It's sometimes also mechanisms for avoiding the pain of rejection. So, if they reject a guy, by saying "Go!" upon immediate approach, they are spared from being rejected -- because they are now the rejector. Afterwards they nevertheless stand there curiously looking at the seducer. Seen it with me and others too.

It's also that women are fed up with lousy men, and can't tell the difference. All girls have queues of thousands of p3nises and DMs, likes and comments on OLD and social media, from the simp army that is wrecking it for all of us.

Girls are also mirroring the average AFC's behaviour, by doing what he isn't: cold and aloof. They think, "if I am needy, clingy and chasy, I will be unattractive like the guys." Pornstar Stringer voiced it, and I think it's a good explanation.

 

[The Duke]

I just can't understand a situation where the guy is cold, and the women show investiment and respect, but he still cold, and she still show investiment.
Is this very rare?

Perhaps being "indifferent" would be a better term to use.

 

[Divorced w 3]

they only love their children unconditionally

No they don’t. At least mine didn’t. Saw dollar signs over warning signs.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I just can't understand a situation where the guy is cold, and the women show investiment and respect, but he still cold, and she still show investiment.
Is this very rare?

"Cold" in the sense that a man who possess sang froid

is highly attractive. Especially in this histrionic era we inhabit

 

[oOh Nasty]

Become cold yourself and walk when there isn’t high interest on her part, she does the bare minimum, and or at the first subtle sign of disrespect.

Stay King.

Being able to withdraw your attention from a woman who isn't passing the bar for you could be considered a skill nowadays due to this current simp culture and men being unable to have control over themselves. I have a few women who work under me, and whenever they try to undermine me or change my plans, I usually just withdraw my attention (I usually give one response. If they still insist, then I just stop responding to them). Mostly, I'm doing it because I don't want to verbally be angry at her and because I'm already formulating a plan in my mind that does NOT involve her anymore. Usually within the next half hour or so, they start texting me along the lines of "okay, I guess you are right. It's definitely better to do it your way" or something similar. It's as if they can subconsciously feel me already finding their replacement.

I'm not in any LTR at the moment, not even dating, but I was the same way in the past with girls I was romantic with. Be tactful and polite the first time, letting her know of your disproval, and if it doesn't work, just non-chalantly start moving on without her.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Turning cold-blooded at the first hint of dramatic behaviour seriously curtails the histrionic personalities.

And in general, a man CANNOT act like Wilde here

7:49-7:52 , regardless of how excited he is, without then being seen as pathetic and effete

 

[jhonny9546]

Perhaps being "indifferent" would be a better term to use.

Yes but that is not normal at all.
What would you say if a women prepare you food, keep the house clean and prepared for you, implore you to have sex with her?
Would you be "indifferent" for 80% of the time, but sometimes, like 20%, you must do something for you&her, like planning a night out, or an event togheter, or any activity you would truly enjoy. Or just say "Thanks, I do appreaciate what you're doing" or "You're so special" or anything that could make her feel special for what is doing for you&her.


I mean every LTR should have his ratio, and it's hard to find, but a 95% / 5% ratio doesn't work.

 

[Westminster]

they only love their children unconditionally

Even then, that's not the case for all of them. More women than you think turn their backs on their kids, even when they're young.

 

[RickTheToad]

It amazing how cold women really are. I keep making the mistake of seeing beauty for softness.

The trick is to realize.how cold women are /can be without falling into the blackpill pitt of becoming scared.

They do it for an emotional response. Don't allow it. Mirror.

 

[Gamisch]

The trick is to stop dating the broken ones if you're not equipped to deal with them.

Absolutely. There's levels to this game. Getting women is one thing. Getting decent women is a whole other ballgame.

I think I that it goes some like this;

Blackpill- no p00sy
Redpill -troubleling p00sy
Bluepill -decent p00sy..

If a man has a decent woman he has no need to be redpill, it probably will work counterproductive for him.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Have personal beliefs and standards and the rest will fall in place. Doesn’t happen overnight. Practice makes perfect.