Hey Guys,
I tried searching around this forum for possible answers but I couldn't really find any in the realm I was looking for. The closest thread to my "problem" would be "I think I over-dj'd my girlfriend" by Enjin 7.
So I've been dating this girl for 8 months now and we have a sturdy relationship. I am in power within all aspects with our relationship and things are great. The only thing is when she is going to leave my apartment or I leave hers, she gets really upset and cries. Shes an attractive woman so it makes sense to me that these types of women are very emotional. Just it takes a huge toll on me. Even if she gets upset just because she hates to leave me. I don't claim to "over-dj" her but I think I've identified possible sources of error in my ways.
Within 8 months we have grown really close, we do constantly text--she lives in an adjacent state--since I work during the week I only get to see her on weekends till we go back to campus in the fall. She waits to see me all week and so when we do we have fun but everytime she's going to leave or I am, she will get very upset. She assures me nothings wrong, she just cries because she doesn't want to leave me.
These kind of emotions just stress me out even though she says she misses me. I do know she is clearly very emotional. But I was wondering if anyone else has been in the same position and how they handled it and such.
Thanks,
Zaf
I tried searching around this forum for possible answers but I couldn't really find any in the realm I was looking for. The closest thread to my "problem" would be "I think I over-dj'd my girlfriend" by Enjin 7.
So I've been dating this girl for 8 months now and we have a sturdy relationship. I am in power within all aspects with our relationship and things are great. The only thing is when she is going to leave my apartment or I leave hers, she gets really upset and cries. Shes an attractive woman so it makes sense to me that these types of women are very emotional. Just it takes a huge toll on me. Even if she gets upset just because she hates to leave me. I don't claim to "over-dj" her but I think I've identified possible sources of error in my ways.
Within 8 months we have grown really close, we do constantly text--she lives in an adjacent state--since I work during the week I only get to see her on weekends till we go back to campus in the fall. She waits to see me all week and so when we do we have fun but everytime she's going to leave or I am, she will get very upset. She assures me nothings wrong, she just cries because she doesn't want to leave me.
These kind of emotions just stress me out even though she says she misses me. I do know she is clearly very emotional. But I was wondering if anyone else has been in the same position and how they handled it and such.
Thanks,
Zaf