Women and their problems

[amoka]

On Saturday, my buddies and I went out and well, I saw HB; had a great conversation with her and then obtained number. Then comes Tuesday. Called her around 7:40pm and set up a coffee date with her for Thursday. She agreed to me at the coffee shop at 8pm on Thursday. Around 3pm on Thursday, I received a text message from HB: " Hi I made a plan to meet u @ the coffee shop 2night I feel bad but I dont remember u or giving my # out saturday I don't want 2 stand u up so im lettin u know im not comin" What the fvck is wrong with women these days. Any idea on what triggered her " I don't remember giving you my #" sh!t?

 

[true romance]

move on....women sometime get scared and second thought. Her IL is low ..
Happen to me once.


Reply: I guess you are not as adventurous as I thought..

 

[amoka]

UPDATE: I responded with something along your line and 15 seconds later, she called and left a message stating how she does not know me and that she is not looking forward to any blind dates. She continues to say that I should give her a call and she may be able to change her mind. What the fvck she is she thinking?

 

[Andy_Dufresne]

Hopefully you didn't text her back.

Save yourself months of aggrivation and don't objectify women based on one experience.

Move on.

If you see her again hopefully she is with a friend. Hit on her friend and completely ignore her.

 

[jophil28]

UPDATE: I responded with something along your line and 15 seconds later, she called and left a message stating how she does not know me and that she is not looking forward to any blind dates. She continues to say that I should give her a call and she may be able to change her mind. What the fvck she is she thinking?

" I may change my mind ..." is a tease. It is an implied promise.
It is also woman-talk for , " I want to take control of this right from the start. I want you to chase after me like all the other dumb d!cks who fawn over me and grovel for my time. Then I MAY throw you some crumbs along the way . But you need to feed my need for attention first and ...." and so on.

She is trying to grab the frame...just another "entitled" baitch who will run you ragged if you play her game.

 

[amoka]

funny

What goes on in women mind? It is funny because I refused to have anything to do with her. Then few minutes ago she text me: ¨Lovely ...guess im not. have a good one¨. What the h3ck is her problem? I don´t feel like contacting her now. I may contact later, maybe few days later though. What are your opinions?

 

[Jitterbug]

Low IL. Don't let her BS get to you. Delete her number and move on.

 

[jophil28]

Lovely ...guess im not. have a good one¨[/U][/B]. What the h3ck is her problem? I don´t feel like contacting her now. I may contact later, maybe few days later though. What are your opinions?

You would have to ask a suitably credentialed health care professional for an opinion if you want to understand her mindset in depth.

However, here is my lay opinion for free.
She is just another scatterbrained AW who is addicted to toying with men to feed her pathetically juvenile ego needs. Every time you reply or connect with these women you feed their desperate need for male validation.

Cut her out of the herd -she is not a contender , my man.

 

[Mr.Positive]

Low IL. Don't let her BS get to you. Delete her number and move on.

Agreed. Women and their problems...are their problems. Not yours.

This has happened to me a lot. Anytime a woman starts spouting out all her problems in life, you have low IL. A gal with high IL, would never do this, because she wants to project the best HER forward...drama free "her", depression/medication free "her", etc.

Women can be great actresses to get what they want. Let them act, and enjoy the ride, but keep your strength and wits about you..in case the waters get choppy.