“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Women and their filters

bat soup

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Has anyone else been tricked into meeting up with butt-ugly women?

I remember one girl who looked like a 10 in her photos but was a 4 in person. Face covered in blemishes, jagged teeth etc. I just couldn't believe it was the same person, but when I looked back at her photos I realized it was but she'd edited out all of her defects.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Has anyone else been tricked into meeting up with butt-ugly women?

I remember one girl who looked like a 10 in her photos but was a 4 in person. Face covered in blemishes, jagged teeth etc. I just couldn't believe it was the same person, but when I looked back at her photos I realized it was but she'd edited out all of her defects.
filters are easy to spot . If you see too
Much of filtering , stay away
 

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Yes. Happened a lot when I first got into OLD. It takes a while to get good at figuring out what to look for. I dislike OLD and dropped it for 3-4 years in order to focus on cold approach instead, but I picked it back up toward the end of the pandemic because cold approach wasn't possible while everyone was wearing masks everywhere.

Here is what I learned to look for:
1. Heavy blur-smoothing filters and bronzing filters = disqualified
2. All pics taken with the camera above them and looking down = disqualified
3. No pics showing their FULL figure. This is a CRITICAL one. Women carry most of their weight in their hips/belly and they do everything they can to creatively hide that. It could be that they have objects in the photo that block their mid section out (like standing behind a friend to where you can only see a part of them), wearing clothing that obscures their shape, etc. Girls who are fit and in shape know it, and they flaunt it. They will post a bikini pic or at least something like short shorts and a crop top or sports bra etc that shows their stomach, hips, legs, etc. If she doesn't post a pic like that = disqualified
4. Only pics with sunglasses on = disqualified
5. Far away pics only = disqualified

I found that including one shirtless pic of myself, in a non-staged situation (like hanging out with friends on a boat etc) helped me quite a bit. Women look for the same thing men do in regards to wanting to see the goods.
 

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Here are the things I noticed:

Face-only photos/photos taken from a wierd angle: she's a big fat land whale
Filters/strange effects: she's a butterface (very common in Asia)

But then again, even if the photos do look natural and good, there's another thing to watch out for:
the woman that turns up could be 10-20 years older than the one in the pics.
 
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