"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women and the Armpit hair Movement??

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I've been seeing this more and more so I decided to check with a female friend and it's apparently a "thing". I've even seen it in another female friends IG pics recently. This is the dumbest thing I've ever heard of. Apparently trying to appear attractive offends women now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thats like a women with short hair

Where are those ideas coming from?
Are they all Lesbos !!!


Maybe they are women in LTR and thats a subtle way for them to repel their BF advances for sex
 

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serious where you guys find this kind of woman?
 

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Funny thing, more guys are shaving their pits and more girls are letting them grow out.
All part of the gender blending thing, I suppose.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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no, it's a way to communicate that they are tired of conforming to the gender stereotypes

women receive the message that they must shave their armpit and leg hair in order to be attractive. the refusal to o so is seen as a way fo saying "I am already attractive, I dont need to do this to prove that, or my value"

I remember being 13 and having the 'shaving legs' conversation with my girlfriend. My comment was "I dont need to do that yet because my hair is blonde, so you cant see it" her response was "sure, okay, if you want to look like a man"

somewhere she (at 13) had already gotten the message that you needed to do this to be attractive.
 

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no, it's a way to communicate that they are tired of conforming to the gender stereotypes

women receive the message that they must shave their armpit and leg hair in order to be attractive. the refusal to o so is seen as a way fo saying "I am already attractive, I dont need to do this to prove that, or my value"

I remember being 13 and having the 'shaving legs' conversation with my girlfriend. My comment was "I dont need to do that yet because my hair is blonde, so you cant see it" her response was "sure, okay, if you want to look like a man"

somewhere she (at 13) had already gotten the message that you needed to do this to be attractive.
Well, it's a woman's right to do whatever she wants with her body but i do hope that those who proudly displays their armpit hair to not complain or start a movement of subjugation when men start to dismiss and relegate those women into the cesspool of unattractive rejects.
 

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Well, it's a woman's right to do whatever she wants with her body but i do hope that those who proudly displays their armpit hair to not complain or start a movement of subjugation when men start to dismiss and relegate those women into the cesspool of unattractive rejects.
oh, I'm sure they'll castrate you and call you misogynist, sexist, etc, after all, everything is the mans fault, eh?
 

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no, it's a way to communicate that they are tired of conforming to the gender stereotypes

women receive the message that they must shave their armpit and leg hair in order to be attractive. the refusal to o so is seen as a way fo saying "I am already attractive, I dont need to do this to prove that, or my value"

I remember being 13 and having the 'shaving legs' conversation with my girlfriend. My comment was "I dont need to do that yet because my hair is blonde, so you cant see it" her response was "sure, okay, if you want to look like a man"

somewhere she (at 13) had already gotten the message that you needed to do this to be attractive.
I’m willing to bet the first woman to do this did it because she attracted more men. Then other women followed suit. Same thing as when men realized they can attract more women by keep their beards neatly trimmed or clean shaven rather than unkempt. Shaving unwanted hair doesn’t make you less of a person. Not shaving doesn’t making you a better one either.
 

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Basically if a sex has more of something than the other it means that such things belongs to it, the reason why b00bs are a plus on a woman and an issue on a man could be an example...women have them while men dont.

Body hair is the same, a woman who is hairy has something manly that clearly men looking for femininity dont particularly appreciate.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think they should all grow their arm pit hair out, not shave their legs, grow mono-brows, chop their hair off, and super glue their pu$$y's shut. We will have zero attraction for them after that. They can do whatever they please. Then they can start forums and write blogs wondering where all the REAL men went.

I'll be importing 5'8", 115lb blondes with blue eyes out of Russia by the train load if that happens and we'll see if they don't change their tune!
 

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@Howiestern don't forget the explosion in Fleshlight sales that would happen, I'd rather fvck a silicone cylinder than take a woman who doesn't care about her looks and is too dumb to understand why she's not desired.
 

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I think they should all grow their arm pit hair out, not shave their legs, grow mono-brows, chop their hair off, and super glue their pu$$y's shut. We will have zero attraction for them after that.
Nah, some guys will still want the anal...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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