"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey guys,

I was just wondering in your experiences with women, how often do they call you and how early in the relationship. I.e. I have gone out with some girl 2x and we have probably spoke on the phone 3 or 4. BTW, every convo has been very short with me breaking it off everytime. I think I am cutting it too short, because I might come across as having low interest to her. Every time she phoned me, she was just returning MY call. I figured since it is early in the dating scene, she was just being traditional by not calling the guy. This past weekend we played phone tag and I left the last message. She has not returned my phone call yet and I was not planning on calling her. What do you guys think? Not calling me back because girls are not supposed to pick up the phone early on and call the guy of a brush off?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Use the phone as a tool to set up a date and maybe a quick convo and you will be fine. Nothing wrong with being the one to end the phone call first. If she has high interest you don't have anything to worry about... good luck!
 
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In the beginning of a relationship a woman may want to talk on the phone more to get to know you, so she may get more comfortable before seeing you. Once this comfort is reached, then I will just call her to set up a personal meeting.
 
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Let her get to know you on the date, not the phone. This will build anticipation and if your date(s) go well her interest level will go up as will her anticipation of the next date.... good luck!
 
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