"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If a women is being rude to you that you are tryin to hit on is it a bad idea to say somthing like " dont take your moods out on me its not my fault your on your periods"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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if your trying to get with her...NOT A GOOD IDEA..

If she's alreayd being rude.. what do you think she would say next??

But if your not trying to get with her and say that you migh get slapped lol

choose your words wisely!!

good luck

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Haha, I'm no expert Don Juan, but I'm pretty sure that's one of the worst ideas I've ever heard!

There are much better ways to respond with a subtle jab at her than to go after that... that's just sort of offensive and gross. Might as well ask her if she's constipated or something.
 
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no not good because it is neither C nor F.....basically it's just an unwitty insult........not to mention it's degrading to all the women around her aswell who will eventually come to her defense, so be sure to know where the Exit in the room is before you say that
 
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wow your a member from 2002 and still dont know if thats a good line or not!!

hope you got some good health insurance
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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it's a pretty adolescent response. You want to say something witty in return. Show her you're mature and intelligent, this will probably bring her guard down a few notches.
 
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The proper wording is, "Damn, when are you gonna get off the rag?"
 
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I wouldnt actually use that line i would use words to that effect in a c+f way i just wanted some suggestions and i have been a member since 2002 but only been using the forums alot in the past 6month i spent time studying david deangelos stuff and found it very rewarding - i have no problem interacting with girls now and im totaly confident in my ability - i find now i can say pretty much wat i want and get a positive outcome - ive also found now that having an arguement with a girl when you first meet her isnt always bad infact ive found it sometimes amplifies the attraction. - the reason i ask questions in this way is to get people to think of ideas and give them to me:)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Chaos-Knight
Here's one:

"Who lit the fuse on your TAMPON?"

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damn... this one is golden! hahaha
 
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