"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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shortstop22

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This is just an example of how some women just can never be loyal, and never think logically about their situation.

I was at a party with a HB 9, I macked on her all night and before leaving I pulled her away from her friends and I told her that she needed to give me her number, so we could meet up for coffee.

I called two days later and got her on the phone, turns out that she still has a boyfriend of 3 YEARS. She then apologized for not telling me, and then still agreed to coffee.

When I asked her how her boyfriend would feel about that, she said "It's just coffee."

She then said, "I'm still allowed to look, after all 3 years is a real LONG time."

Basically these type of women disgust me. I told her it was nice to meet her and I hung up the phone.

Here is my question to you guys.

Have you ever gotten with women with long-term boyfriends, and in your opinion was it worth it? Based on my situations I don't think it's worth it.

Your guys input?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don't waste your time with them. They're looking to build their egos or they want to jump ship... and if they do it with you, they'll do it to you.
 

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I respect you for honoring her boyfriend, fvck girls like this.
 

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I had a girlfriend who would spend time with other guys, for fun, without ever talking about it to me (I discovered it via friends).

When I talked to her about it, she said that it was because she loved how they built up her ego (they were mainly all AFCs).

I proceeded to dump her ass, burn bridges and hate with a passion those who violated the Code of Conduct of the Proper Male.

Conclusion? I prefer to walk away, even if it's tempting, to save a lot of hassle.
 

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shortstop22 said:
Basically these type of women disgust me. I told her it was nice to meet her and I hung up the phone.
What type of women? I'm not seeing anything genuinely shocking in this story at all.

To better understand yourself and women I found one needs to at least attempt a paradigm shift in the way they look at everything, especially women.

Sadao said:
I respect you for honoring her boyfriend, fvck girls like this.
YEAH!!!


Edited to comform with the safe and reliable embrace of the matrix. May not be authors actual thoughts.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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( . )( . ) said:
What type of women? I'm not seeing anything genuinely shocking in this story at all.

To better understand yourself and women I found one needs to at least attempt a paradigm shift in the way they look at everything, especially women.



YEAH!!!


Edited to comform with the safe and reliable embrace of the matrix. May not be authors actual thoughts.
Even though it is rare, there are some women who are very loyal to their boyfriends.
 

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shortstop22 said:
Even though it is rare, there are some women who are very loyal to their boyfriends.
Yeah? How are you gonna get one of those, wont she be with her boyfriend?

But seriously ..Hmmm yes and no.

See the guys that chicks are as your male brain perceives as "loyal" too (or something kind of close to it, the closest your gonna get) are the type of guys that fvck chicks with borefriends, as a matter of fact they dont give the borefriend a second thought.

So your kind of at a catch 22, fvcked in other words.
 

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shortstop22 said:
Even though it is rare, there are some women who are very loyal to their boyfriends.

One of my annoyances is when people have to crow on about the handful of statistical outliers as if we're all stupid and have one thumb up our ass and the other in our mouth.

There's always the guy who pipes in "NUH UH! not all of them!!!!" We KNOW; it's just easier to say "all" when most people understand it's not 100% literal.
 

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Ruckus,
Kind of like reading these posts where it's obvious that they miss the point of being here cause they want to find the one?
I have been here for 4-5 years off and on, it wasn't till I said screw it, I could give a flyin' fuxx about getting a girlfriend. I focused on becoming the best me I can and be happy while doing it. Suddenly my choices in women started to shoot way up. They chase me and I do the choosing not the other way around. The only rule that we should respect is either the ring on their finger, or our friend's girlfriends. Some others here may disagree but when the rules extend to some guy we never met, then we are screwed.
 

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To me this post is quite silly. Any woman who didn't seek out the best gene's DNA was removed from the gene pool over time.

Although cultural programming (such as biblical influence) can cause some women to override their innate response, a woman's emotional circuitry is hard wired for her to seek the best provider and the best genes, but those need not come from the same source.

There is no reason to get upset by this at all. The proper response would have been to bang her. You are compromising your fun in life by trying to adhere to some moral standard that only exists inside your skull and was culturally programming into you like a robot.

There's my .02
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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everywomanshero said:
To me this post is quite silly. Any woman who didn't seek out the best gene's DNA was removed from the gene pool over time.

Although cultural programming (such as biblical influence) can cause some women to override their innate response, a woman's emotional circuitry is hard wired for her to seek the best provider and the best genes, but those need not come from the same source.

There is no reason to get upset by this at all. The proper response would have been to bang her. You are compromising your fun in life by trying to adhere to some moral standard that only exists inside your skull and was culturally programming into you like a robot.

There's my .02
Moral standards are what keep this f*cking society together. You DJers and your "evils of cultural programming", sigh. I suppose you're not fulfilling your bioligical duty unless you're having sex with as many women as possible until your old and shriveled body starts rejecting the viagra. Good luck maintaining relationships in life with that "DJ" attitude.

I swear, sometimes this site is poison...

You did a good thing, shortstop. Keep your standards high, and call out female BS when you see it.
 

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everywomanshero said:
To me this post is quite silly. Any woman who didn't seek out the best gene's DNA was removed from the gene pool over time.

Although cultural programming (such as biblical influence) can cause some women to override their innate response, a woman's emotional circuitry is hard wired for her to seek the best provider and the best genes, but those need not come from the same source.

There is no reason to get upset by this at all. The proper response would have been to bang her. You are compromising your fun in life by trying to adhere to some moral standard that only exists inside your skull and was culturally programming into you like a robot.

There's my .02
I agree with Master Bates.

You know I usually like your posts everywomanshero, but this response was a complete NO...I really liked how the OP dealt with the situation because he showed the chick he had a sense of class and respect for her poor BF. If anything, this was what would most call a "DJ move".
 

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Two years ago, I met a girl who I thought had everything worthy of my time only to find out that she was seeing someone exclusively.

Props for honoring her current relationship and for moving on. Nice effort on trying to get to know her inspite of her ways. The dame was looking for attention otherwise why even bother to remain in a three year relationship? The boyfriend either trusts her and is a sap, or doesn't care since he does it too behind her back.
 

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My **** friend at work is like that. Shes had her bf for like I think 2 years, but we go out on break and fool around. I personally think shes just trying to game me so she can replace him but she went on her period 2 days ago and I next'd her like an hour ago. I just figured if shes going to be a ***** to me than she can **** herself. I really have no tollerance for girls being *****y to me especially when I consider them to be garbage.
 
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"YAWN" - a typical hor who rationalizes her hordoms!!! She'll make a good wife to a DJ someday!

Women are loyal - but hors do not know the meaning of loyalty!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Last Man Standing said:
"YAWN" - a typical hor who rationalizes her hordoms!!! She'll make a good wife to a DJ someday!

Women are loyal - but hors do not know the meaning of loyalty!!!
I hope you meant AFC, because if you didn't, I fear that the Matrix has captured you!!!! :)
 

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Skytzo_Marc said:
Don't waste your time with them. They're looking to build their egos or they want to jump ship... and if they do it with you, they'll do it to you.
Read that and take it to heart, thats the bottom line no point in arguing against it now. Women like that are worth keeping around as a fu(k buddy nothing more nothing less, for if you want more she'll do to you what she done to him.
 

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Well done shortstop, shows you are not deseparate enough to get any chick and that loyalty, integrity, and honor are far superior to getting laid. I agree, women without loyalty digust me too.
 

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everywomanshero said:
To me this post is quite silly. Any woman who didn't seek out the best gene's DNA was removed from the gene pool over time.

Although cultural programming (such as biblical influence) can cause some women to override their innate response, a woman's emotional circuitry is hard wired for her to seek the best provider and the best genes, but those need not come from the same source.

There is no reason to get upset by this at all. The proper response would have been to bang her. You are compromising your fun in life by trying to adhere to some moral standard that only exists inside your skull and was culturally programming into you like a robot.

There's my .02
I agree. Guys make a huge deal about sex (the guys that aren't getting any)with all this loyalty moral stuff, thinking things should be a particular way and creating these double standards etc.

Women have A LOT of options and if you guys here had the same amount of options you'd be doing the samething. You'd probably play the field for a period of time, then end up in a relationship with a really hot chick, but you'd still hook up with other hot chicks here and there during the relationship since so many would be throwing themselves at you and eventually you would give in.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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