"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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RangerMIke

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Being fat/broke is no way to go through life. You can either react to what is happening to you or you can control your environment. The by-product of living a disciplined life is you will have less stress which means you will make better decisions and will be healthier.

Create a budget, schedule self-care and build it into your life... then have the disciple for follow what you have laid out. Good advice to both men and women... do this and you will naturally be more attractive and interesting to the opposite sex.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SeekerOfTheWay

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Being fat/broke is no way to go through life. You can either react to what is happening to you or you can control your environment. The by-product of living a disciplined life is you will have less stress which means you will make better decisions and will be healthier.

Create a budget, schedule self-care and build it into your life... then have the disciple for follow what you have laid out. Good advice to both men and women... do this and you will naturally be more attractive and interesting to the opposite sex.
And happier! Good advice for all. Just go after it! Push! :)
 
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