"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women and doors: to open or not to open?

Do you open doors for women?

  • Only if they say are thankful and reciprocate positively in some way

    Votes: 10 41.7%
  • Always, regardless of how they react.

    Votes: 12 50.0%
  • I do not open doors for women, period.

    Votes: 2 8.3%

  • Total voters
    24

SgtSplacker

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There's two different types of door opening. There's the common courtesy hold the door open just to make it easier for the person behind you. Then there's the significant other door opening, where you go out of your way to make sure you get that door for her. The way I see it i'll only do the significant other door opening if i'm trying to bang a girl. Otherwise it's the courtesy open, if it's convenient for me...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Women get the door nudge from me. Unless it was a serious girlfriend and I was feeling good I wouldn't do it.
 

VladPatton

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Just do it and be a gentleman. Funny shyt is, the way women feel entitled to walk through a door opened by a guy is the same way we feel entitled to a 'thank you'. If a stranger says thank you, that shows they have an ounce of manners. If they don't, it shows a pound of worthlessness.
 
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