"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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For those of who you've thought about having a child without a woman promoting you to do it, I have a few questions. However, I sometimes sit and wonder "is this really what you want? Is it even worth it? Or is it even possible to find a good enough woman to be the mother of your child nowadays?"

If there is a divorce, which is mathematically likely to happen, she will end with a good chunk of your money and assets, in addition to you having to pay child support and/or alimony. If there isn't divorce or marriage at all in the relationship, can you really see yourself being with the same woman for 18 years or sacrificing yourself for the well-being of your child?

I'm actually starting to see that children may not be for me, considering the above possibilities. Has anybody else thought about this same situation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't really want them. If I found a woman that good then I would be open to it but I doubt it will happen.
What would your definition of "a woman that good" be in this context?
 
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