"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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women and chaos theory

gabrielshear

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I have been reading an interesting article about chaos theory, and you know what? it seems that women and chaos have many things in similar. This in turn both makes them predictable


Chaotic Systems are not random. They may appear to be. They have some simple defining features:

1. Chaotic systems are deterministic. This means they have something determining their behavior.

2. Chaotic systems are very sensitive are very sensitive to the initial conditions. A very slight change in the starting point can lead to enormously different outcomes. This makes the system fairly unpredictable.

3. Chaotic systems appear to be disorderly, even random. But they are not. Beneath the random behavior is a sense of order and pattern. Truly random systems are not chaotic. The orderly systems predicted by classical physics are the exceptions. In this world of order, chaos rules!

If we exploit this theory we may be able to predict women.

ps : see also my other thread entitled : how to measure a girl/women interest level

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cheiradawg

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I am familiar with chaos theory and I can assure you it has nothing ot do with women.
 

Cheiradawg

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Chaos theory is about chaos theory. Women are women. You can sit there and mentally masterbate your enornious brain till it hurts but you aren't really doing anything. You can say the way YOU view chaos theory is similiar to the way YOU view women, but these things are unique to YOUR mind. Reel yourself back in.

Just becuase there are these concepts in your brain that make the two things seems similiar does mean they actually are.

"If we exploit this theory we may be able to predict women." w t f is that. It will never happon. Even if it does it will be so complex no one could apply it.

Take the academic **** out of finding women. It doens't fly man trust me.
 

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Oh no, not another science formula seeker... :rolleyes:

I believe not everything can be scientifically predicted, humans surely can't be, at least not 100% correctly in long term, which would of course be proof to certify the theory. On the other hand, you can pretty well estimate someone's behaviour and reactions, from a basic input of 'knowing the person real well' and an extended input of 'paying attention to details' and 'feeling the vibes'. Savvy? ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dee-Zy

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Originally posted by karusel
Oh no, not another science formula seeker... :rolleyes:


My thoughts exactly - I entered this thread hoping to get some interesting intelligent insight although is was theory.


I want my 120 seconds of my life back!!!
 

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Predict women?

(Sigh!) Foolish, foolish child! :rolleyes:The very essence of chaos is to be unpredictable. If you develop a theory to predict it, you'll disrupt the entire Time/Space Continum and reality will vanish in a POOF of logic. But by then, we girls will change all the rules and you'll have to start all over again. :p


The answer is "42".
 

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As soon as you stop evaluating and start defining, thats when you start failing.


There is not a set rule for anything...if there is...the rule is "keep getting information."
 
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