Women and bonding process

[Who Dares Win]

I would like to get some information and discuss about how the bonding process works for women.

We all know many guys get clingy for the girl they lose their virginity with or many get oneitis for some particular girl however nobody talked about the opposite.

Which are the situation which lead a girl to bond with some guy, Im talking about occasions and actions but also the chemistry of the brain.

Sometime I read on many blogs about certain neurotrasmitters to be released during sex which lead the two to get attached to each other.

Anyone has anything to say regarding women and bonding?

 

[bigneil]

Women only bond to men through orgasm.

It's like casting a spell over them, but it wears off within 30 days so you have to repeat the procedure regularly.

In general, the younger the women, the stronger her physical attraction, the longer the time she spends with a man, and the fewer partners she's had, the more she will bond to a man.

 

[Burroughs]

In general, the younger the women, the stronger her physical attraction, the longer the time she spends with a man, and the fewer partners she's had, the more she will bond to a man.

agree a 100%

its unfortunate that western society has promoted the exact opposite for female behavior through media and government.

This is the underlying reason women in the western world have become insolent, belligerent children unable to bond with men...they are well past the age of bonding after college, by the time they attempt to find partners...this is why 'mr right' never comes along...women are meant to bond between ages 14-18...anything after that...the capacity just isn't there...after 18 a women is just a provisioning opportunist...nothing real can exist and regression is the sad byproduct.

why has this unfortunate state of affairs been allowed?

less bonding and family breakdown = more dependance on government and rise of welfare state

 

[Who Dares Win]

Im not referring only to the general fact, I would also like to know what is the best action to do to make sure a woman develop a bond with you.

There's this girl I desire, not as a girlfriend in fact she is mostly my luxury object, I dont feel any love for her but I want her at an animal level, not only in her looking hot but mostly to own her...kinda hard to explain.
The problem is that somehow I have to make sure that the connection between me and this girls keep us close while Im looking for a girl on a sentimental level.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I think you are in the wrong forum guy.. that is some psychotic advice you are asking for.. you need to talk to a psychiatrist..

You think wrong.

 

[Handsfull]

To own a woman THAT thoroughly, it depends more on her than you. Because you desire to do this makes YOU unhealthy. If she succumbs to your intent, SHE is unhealthy. That being said, go find yourself a BPD chick and go hog wild for a while. You might find out, youre the one getting owned though.

 

[Burroughs]

@whodares

ahhhh you are looking for a groupie, a sex toy....

yes. I had a few during my music days in college. But thats the thing...SHE HAS TO PEDESTALIZE YOU FIRST B4 ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN..somehow someway...then you can degrade her to your hearts content...but the obsession must sprout from her mind first...that is the tricky part.

 

[evan12]

Im not referring only to the general fact, I would also like to know what is the best action to do to make sure a woman develop a bond with you.

There's this girl I desire, not as a girlfriend in fact she is mostly my luxury object, I dont feel any love for her but I want her at an animal level, not only in her looking hot but mostly to own her...kinda hard to explain.
The problem is that somehow I have to make sure that the connection between me and this girls keep us close while Im looking for a girl on a sentimental level.

may be you have to at traditional cultures and how they bond the woman
1- marry woman as young as possible , as some one said here after she become mature it is hard for her to bond because her masculine side grow
2- offer financial and security to her in case you are in serious relationship , alot of women want to leave but they dont because of the security and peace of mind that their husbands offer to the m
3- let her know if she cheated on you are you ready to do some thing crazy , even if you are not going to do just make her feel you are ready , most of women who dare to cheat the ones who know nothing bad will happen to them at worst it will be devoirce or some slaps on her face
4- dont neglect her , but dont be clingy .

 

[yuppaz]

(not a shrink...but) sounds like you have some major control / inferiority issues. I think you should leave girls alone and go see a shrink. You're just going to damage whoever you are able to get your hooks into...

 

[headFirst]

You think wrong.

The funny part is you will probably be the one to get attached while you watch her walk away.. Karma kind of sucks.

 

[Who Dares Win]

The funny part is you will probably be the one to get attached while you watch her walk away.. Karma kind of sucks.

Unlike most of the chumps in this world Im more than ready to take risks to get what I want, this one in particular among the the others.