Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Women and Alcohol?

Hermit

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Hi guys,

Just a quick question, what is your opinion on women that get so drunk they are kind of a embarrassment?

To me when you go out for drinks with a girl, and you meet up with other friends, I live in a smallish town so I generally know most people but your girl gets absolutely smashed and can hardly walk! Yeah we all do it from time to time but to me its the most unattractive thing in the world!

Is it just me getting old? Am I not as fun as I used to be lol

What are your thoughts on it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bingo-Player

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would turn me off too I like a woman whos in control of herself

once in a blue moon I would overlook it if I was interested enough in the chick

but if it happened all the time it would be embarrassing and I would sack her off
 

SgtSplacker

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It's ok to have fun but not at the expense of your friends having to take care of you. Do you have fun drunk sex? Is she a good drunk, or is she not fun to be around when drunk? All these things need to be taken into account.

I broke up with a 7 year ltr because of this, she was trying to keep it under control for a while until she just started treating me like I was against her so I opted out. She now has what looks like a mildly retarded baby with some dude there. I think I dodged a grenade with that one...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Augustus_McCrae

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Hermit,

If you just started dating her, it's a red flag because it means she doesn't respect you enough to have a little self control or she potentially has a drinking problem.

If you've been seeing her a while and she did this more than once, the same still applies.

However, if you've been seeing her for a while and it's a one time thing, then it's potentially not too bad, but keep your eyes open.

-Augustus-
 

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Yeah, it can get annoying. I don't like babysitting b!tches.

You just need to tell her that you are going out to have a good time and she will eventually be on her own if she can't handle herself. She might get angry and accuse you of "not caring about her". The best response to that is: "You need to care about yourself first, then I will care too".
 

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You want to just sleep with those girls and keep them around as f-buddies. Never ever become emotionally invested in one. I saw a girl I just kind of knew, that's been dating a friend of mine. She got soo soo drunk at a pub crawl that she got into a fight with her friends and walked out onto the streets alone, this past weekend. She was literally being lead home by a guy who looked homeless, until I ran into her walking back to my car and dropped her off at her place out of pity. These girls will go out and cheat of you, and not feel even the slightest bit of guilt or the duty to tell you.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Hi guys,

Just a quick question, what is your opinion on women that get so drunk they are kind of a embarrassment?

To me when you go out for drinks with a girl, and you meet up with other friends, I live in a smallish town so I generally know most people but your girl gets absolutely smashed and can hardly walk! Yeah we all do it from time to time but to me its the most unattractive thing in the world!

Is it just me getting old? Am I not as fun as I used to be lol

What are your thoughts on it?
I'm 17. I find it unattractive too. Especially because a third of the time they're faking it and not really drunk at all. Fvcking fakers....

You aren't too old
 

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Alcohol is an interesting drug.

It is a societal lubricant.... Helping to relax and make business dealings and helps lower inhibitions to take off the panties.....

It is one of the original "truth serums"... "Drunk words are sober thoughts".... Things can get very interesting at times..... A little and it can be fun too much and it is disastrous. You got to know your limit..... her limit....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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