"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women and alcohol

happyman2012

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women tend to get *****y when they have something to drink, would you ever forgive a woman for kicking off when shes had a drink if she had never ever been like that before?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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betheman

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once yes, make a habit of it...next
 

Who Dares Win

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Most of the times is not the alchool to create an attitude, but its the alchool which give them an excuse to do what they want and get rid of any responsibility.

A drunk girl can still say no to a guy if he is ugly, if she says yes to a guy its not "because of alchool" but because she wanted and she had something to blame the following morning.
 

hockeyfreak79

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happyman2012 said:
women tend to get *****y when they have something to drink, would you ever forgive a woman for kicking off when shes had a drink if she had never ever been like that before?
Broads and booze! It sounds like your gut is telling you something. Don't ignore this red flag. I've dated a fair amount of alcoholics, fun in the beginning and that's it!

That's the biggest turn-off for me is a broad that can't handle or know her own limits. Her drunk attitude is a little window to her sober attitude.

I prefer to have HEALTHY addictions, have your fun and move along if the situation gets out of control.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JoeMarron

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Truth serum. If you still like her after seeing her drunk she's a keeper. I'd still stay away from the chronic drunks though
 
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