Women and accountability. Your stories

[Datinglife26]

Post your stories of women that you were direct and blunt with over their actions and what happened afterwards.

Good or bad, did they go ghost or did they chase you, did they leave because they couldnt handle the truth?

Lets have some stories about when you held your frame and standards regardless of how hot they were or the out come.

I'll go first, ex of 3.5 years started to expect me to be the one paying for holidays, big romantic gestures all while her effort and actions were already worse than mine and she didnt follow threw on her actions and was becoming bitchy.

Told her she needs to show me she loves me too it's not a one way street of a man kissing a woman's ass.

She dumped me telling me that I was bare minimum and not a provider. I walked and didn't beg. I believe holding frame showed me who she really was.

Technically a rejection, but a rejection of the idea of equal effort. Grass isn't greener but she can't ever come back

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

as far as i can recall, anytime i've attempted this it's led to gaslighting, stonewalling, denial, or somehow making it my fault.

the last few results were me putting my shoes on and walking out the door

 

[nismo-4]

In most cases the woman walks away. When you remove that gray area, she walks because she knows you're not for her games. She knows you won't be around for some beta role.

 

[RangerMIke]

If a man has what a woman wants and needs, she will walk over broken glass to get and keep you.

When women 'play games' that indicates she likes most of what you have, but she needs you to give more as a condition of being with her.

It's like negotiating when you are buying a car.... with you are the car and salesman. If the car is 'perfect' for her she'll just say "Take my money!".... if it's close to what she wants, she'll expect you, the salesman, to toss in extras... the furthest away from what she wants... the more she expects you, as the salesman, to deliver more.

The more demanding she is, the furthest you are away from what she is really looking for. At that point, it is up to you as the man to decide if what you have to sacrifice is worth having her until she gets buyer's remorse.

This is reality, like Ayn Rand once said, "You can ignore reality, but you can't ignore the consequences for ignoring reality."

 

[Bingo-Player]

Few years ago after I had just turned 30 I met a 22 year old college chick

Very hot blonde long legs the lot .... she was absolute filth in the sack

We dated for about 6 months , she was starting to annoy me a bit by that point was very immature

And also had a very strange lifestyle expensive car , clothes , holidays not really what you would expect from a 22 year old college student I just chalked it up to her being from a rich family ( which she was )

One day I had a random message from her roommate saying she was basically doing escort work as a sugarbaby and had been for years

I gave her a lot of home truths and haven't spoken to her since

Looking back it was a fun rollercoaster couple of months but had I been an NPC or simp I could have quite easily gotten badly sucked in to her Chaos