"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Women always says than I am mean, why?

Pr0lab

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for some reason I always her them women say "be nice. don't be mean" to me.
what do you think is this, wrong ****y Funny or its a test ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Willis

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Im mean to the chicks..but its either that or some simp....

and when they say "dont be mean" "be nice"
i comeback with somethin like ARE U GONNA BE GOOD GIRL.......****
 

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It means that they are sexually aroused to a high level around you but they are so uncomfortable with their internal experience in public places that they are asking you to cut it back a little.
 

Scaramouche

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What they are saying is"You have hit the nail on the head,but must you be so blunt"bit like an English comedy show,where one of the characters in drag,says as a party line,"Oh but you are awful",then digs her fall guy in the ribs and says"But I do like you".
 

STR8UP

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I was recently told by a woman "You're always MEAN to me!"

Followed by "It's a good thing you're funny....."

David D would be proud.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Aenigma

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When a woman says in a playful tone that "you're being mean to me" it means that you're doing something right.

It's a shyt test- don't back down or apologize. Full speed ahead with exploiting whatever insecurity you've found in her.

Keep up the good work champ.
 
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