"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Women aint **** but hoes and tricks!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DonJuanForever
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Hey, I just turned the big 23 too man, lol, I'm telling ya, I'm getting to senior citizen status, lol, no.
But friv, you've gotten married, got a family, and I believe you fell in "the trap."
Remember Pook made a post about NOT following the "way" and I think you just followed it.
I don't think you like being married, I don't think you're happy, I think you are quite miserable.
If you are married to the girl you want, WHY ARE YOU STILL TALKING ABOUT DON JUAN PRINCIPLES? Lol, when you marry, there's no more don juan principles, your life is hers, her life is yours, what the hell?
I don't think you should have gotten married yet, I think you are still growing into your true self. Trust me, I am too buddy.
Sit down and really think about your present life, do you really and honestly like it? I mean, lol, you call cursing out your family "don juan" or "being a man", lol....hey friv I am in martial arts. The real tough guys don't go around cursing folks out to be "don juan."
A don juan, which is a man, is a guy WHO HAS SEARCHED HIS SOUL AND FOUND HIMSELF. He has peace (which you don't have), he has joy (that's not a result of anything from this world but his soul), and he is living the life he wanted, not the life he settled for (which I think you have).
Friv, go back and finish growing buddy. Then for the rest of your life, LIVE IT, and stop living for somebody else.
DJF
basically i cared about my AW when it happened but that was for a small window only natural human behavior. look at yourself dude.
don juan forever is right, why are you still on here? you have no relevant knowledge. youre 23 probably could hardly wipe your own a$$. could never get another girl and thats why youre already settling down cause youre scared about finding someone else cause you have no confidence. you probably felt like you were the sh!t when you yelled at your aunt and felt all good about people giving you props.hahaha at 23 thats how you get your jollys pretty funny.
everyone knows 23 is an age where you should have options opened. unless you know you cant have any other options like yourself. wtf you have a lot of problems 2600 posts has a family and still on this website.
dude sorry your not happy with your life, it will get better.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
are you in Highschool?MattS said:wtf is so hard to understand. i forgot you got an art degree you cant analyze sh!t. you claim youre the sh!t and im just letting you know that you aint nothing definatley nothing in my eyes and probably other people. who said anything about getting on one another i know you have secrets and sh!t but fvck you dont have to let everyone on here know what you want. i am good looking but i dont swing your way sorry.
basically i cared about my AW when it happened but that was for a small window only natural human behavior. look at yourself dude.
don juan forever is right, why are you still on here? you have no relevant knowledge. youre 23 probably could hardly wipe your own a$$. could never get another girl and thats why youre already settling down cause youre scared about finding someone else cause you have no confidence. you probably felt like you were the sh!t when you yelled at your aunt and felt all good about people giving you props.hahaha at 23 thats how you get your jollys pretty funny.
everyone knows 23 is an age where you should have options opened. unless you know you cant have any other options like yourself. wtf you have a lot of problems 2600 posts has a family and still on this website.
dude sorry your not happy with your life, it will get better.
I have a son you stupid fyck? i have to take care of him..
as donjuanforever said "But friv, you've gotten married, got a family, and I believe you fell in "the trap."
Remember Pook made a post about NOT following the "way" and I think you just followed it."
why is it so hard for you to comprehend things. you settled down early cause of the reasons i stated above
go back and read duanjuanforever post
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.