"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women aint **** but hoes and tricks!

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Remember that!

JK :)


but women arent really ****.

this past weekend my 50 something yr old aunt was being a bytch and I finally called her out on it....and she left the family function and everyone was happy!


call all women out when they disrepect you.....even if they are mad..that will pass and they will respect you even more.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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donArjun said:
thats mean dude, I would never do that in a family function.


ok? my aunt is a bytch and treats me and my family like shyt...sorry that you would take that.
 

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yeah, i aint takin shyt from no one
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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alright, everybody get back to work
 

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Show class; not your ass

--- is that the right spot for a semicolon?

I could have written "show class and not your ass."
OR "show class, and not your ass."

Which one is right????
 

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I agree with bvidd. friv your posts suck and pointless.
 
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I most definetly agree with Self Mastery on 1 part only and that's to show class.

All that the original poster did is create fear, and although that means power its not nessesarily good at all.

There are two ways to go about it, if you think about it.

But I'll go with class, and Ill show you respect as well original poster, just learn from your mistake, but, and not to put you down at all or nething but, this post wasn't nessesary. It's cool though noones perfect, its not like I had to respond.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think you guys missed the point.

My aunt was bossy like she has been for 20 yrs..telling people how to act and what to do.


I stopped that shyt immediately.

my family has been calling me and been grateful

if someone dis-respects you call them out.

I bet the dude who said that I a loser hasnt been laid yet..or beats off to myspace chicks he cant even get online...ive been shown the light with my 2 yrs here... from the best of the best
 

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frivolousz21 said:
Remember that!

JK :)


but women arent really ****.

this past weekend my 50 something yr old aunt was being a bytch and I finally called her out on it....and she left the family function and everyone was happy!


call all women out when they disrepect you.....even if they are mad..that will pass and they will respect you even more.
Awwww thats soo cute your 23 yrs old and still whinning about how aunty treats you like a child.Man im gonna start calling my mom a b!cth inmatter of fact every women I see are all b1cthes I mean all women are the same.

lol grow up man you gonna be 24 years old!Your a Grown MAN act like it!
 

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friv dont talk sh!t youre the one who cant get laid thats why you posted 2300 times on here in such a short amount of time. gurantee youre not the best of the best. you dont know sh!t. you cant pull any girl you want thats for sure.
 

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Matts-

I never said I was the best of the best...ive said Ive talked to the best of the best.


your a fycking faggot...ive seen you here...and you are a loser..like most off these jokers.

I havent posted a lot since when?
Hell I cant remember.

but the mature men are right..not that I agree with them all the time..but I see there light more and more.....this place is filled with super pyssy's.

I offer sound advice on how to be a a good man....and I get flamed by fags who cant get laid...fynny ****.

Now I know why I gave up on this place.
 

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dude i gurantee i could fvck more girls than you. i got b1tches throwing their sh!t on me constantly. i chose not to fvck them cause i aint pathetic and have high standards that are there due to my previous past of only being with hot girls. you got nothing on me dude seriously. u wanna see a pic ill show it. what kind of car do you drive? 89 honda accord? what kind of education you got? you getting a masters degree? youre probalby some skinny dude. please man. youre a dork "im a good/nice guy" hahaha you aint that good if your calling people fvckin faggots and you call out an elder to you. wtf your a good guy? you call out your parents when they bug you. please dude.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MattS said:
dude i gurantee i could fvck more girls than you. i got b1tches throwing their sh!t on me constantly. i chose not to fvck them cause i aint pathetic and have high standards that are there due to my previous past of only being with hot girls. you got nothing on me dude seriously. u wanna see a pic ill show it. what kind of car do you drive? 89 honda accord? what kind of education you got? you getting a masters degree? youre probalby some skinny dude. please man. youre a dork "im a good/nice guy" hahaha you aint that good if your calling people fvckin faggots and you call out an elder to you. wtf your a good guy? you call out your parents when they bug you. please dude.

ok? that makes no sense..and sounds like it was written by a dude playing dungens and dragons.

your posts sure look like it.
 

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thats funny, i have no idea what dungeons and dragons is but apprantley u think its not cool and thats why you know what it is. answer my questions. if that makes no sense then you are a retard. let me spell it out for you. YOU ARE A DORK AND YOU HAVE NOTHING ON ME. DO YOU UNDERSTAND? I was right you are skinny actually out of shape.
 

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MattS said:
thats funny, i have no idea what dungeons and dragons is but apprantley u think its not cool and thats why you know what it is. answer my questions. if that makes no sense then you are a retard. let me spell it out for you. YOU ARE A DORK AND YOU HAVE NOTHING ON ME. DO YOU UNDERSTAND? I was right you are skinny actually out of shape.

what the **** are you talking about?

I have a 5 week old son..why would I Care about you talking shyt about how I look?

maybe u really are gay.....????

nothing on you? do u want me to get on you are somehting> im confused? why would I have something on you?

why would I care if im skinny what does that have to do with anything?

are u some roid rage freak???

dude, look im sorry you 2 yr AW fycked you over...it will get better.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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