jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
I’ve known this guy for 10 years. Over the last 7, he went from being an ordinary person (normal job, normal life), to a public figure, gaining access to exclusive experiences, TV shows and social circles.
He isn’t handsome, breautiful, neither rich (atm), yet very pretty women are clearly attracted to him since the change.
The main difference? His status.
(From what I know He is doing good by keeping his 20+ years LTR with a good woman)
He isn’t handsome, breautiful, neither rich (atm), yet very pretty women are clearly attracted to him since the change.
The main difference? His status.
(From what I know He is doing good by keeping his 20+ years LTR with a good woman)
A man might be handsome but live an ordinary life.
Another might be less attractive but offer excitement, connections and access to a world she wouldn't otherwise experience.
Are you guys with me if I say that even healthy women in healthy, stable relationships can feel they've settled when faced or just IRL met with a man of higher status?
I had the chance to look two couples interacting, and they've met first time.
(I was observing this from my table, with my old gf at that time)
The woman from the first couple greets the man from the second couple, and then, after also greeting the other woman, she steps slightly aside. In exactly five seconds, she fixes her gaze on the man from the second couple while he is busy talking to her own bf.
She looks at him in completely, from head to toe, then lingers on his arms, his shoulders, and his face.
Remaining perfectly still, she then turn her face to her BF..looking at him for two seconds...
And then, I will never forget that scene, nor the expression on her face, She stays frozen for ten seconds, her head still facing forward, but her eyes cast downward and to the left and a faint, subtle pout on her lips...
The expression was the same when you know you want pizza, but you’re served nachos instead.
Yet, your stomach is hungry... so what do you do? You eat..
(I was observing this from my table, with my old gf at that time)
The woman from the first couple greets the man from the second couple, and then, after also greeting the other woman, she steps slightly aside. In exactly five seconds, she fixes her gaze on the man from the second couple while he is busy talking to her own bf.
She looks at him in completely, from head to toe, then lingers on his arms, his shoulders, and his face.
Remaining perfectly still, she then turn her face to her BF..looking at him for two seconds...
And then, I will never forget that scene, nor the expression on her face, She stays frozen for ten seconds, her head still facing forward, but her eyes cast downward and to the left and a faint, subtle pout on her lips...
The expression was the same when you know you want pizza, but you’re served nachos instead.
Yet, your stomach is hungry... so what do you do? You eat..
If all we say is that women live off their emotions, when she come to know that man, what would you think she'll feel? You can't do anything about it. And, they won't admit, but it's not the damaged ones. Even that healthy woman would feel resentment or FOMO to be in a LTR with a lower status/fame man.
(Curious about what women here can say about that.)
Lastly, as men, we should take those examples and learn from them.
I believe successful men MUST focus on building a life they genuinely love. Doing what they really like. Fame and status are byproduct.
(The case for my friend, He really love being a comedian).
You can be with status, and famous, But if you lack the vitality that comes from what you do, life senses that it isn’t genuine.
To attain fame and status in life, a man must completely push those things into the background and focus exclusively on doing what makes him feel most alive, and doing it as well as he possibly can.
It is a counterintuitive path. It’s just like making money: you shouldn’t focus on making money itself; instead, you should focus on generating value, and the money will follow. The same applies to status and fame.
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