"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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womans taste in clothes?

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ProDJ26

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so this summer a girl friend of mine took me out shoppin and basically got me a new set of clothes. wut do u guys think of gurls taste in clothes?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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brenbaus

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dude, chicks know how to dress you, take my word for it
 
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DON'T DO IT. One of my roommates let a girl shop for him, and his style was plain and way too mature for his age. Some girls know what looks good, some don't. But that doesn't matter. What matters is what you like!!! Develop your own style! It takes a lot of time! Don't go for what another damn girl likes on you. Clothes are important. Cause in all reality you attract the type of girls that are like you... do you want to attract the type of chicks that some other chick thinks you should attract and aren't congruent with your own personality? lol
 
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realsmoothie

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Sure, go ahead and do it. Helped me a lot.

But go with someone that knows you, and has seen a lot of the stuff that you have already. That way what you buy will work with your personal taste and with the rest of your clothes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't dress according to trends, but I take free clothing from my GF all the time.
 
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Sexual

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I agree, they usually do know what's up. If she looks hot as hell and dresses nice, she'll know her ****.

Careful, though.

Don't let her make you wax your hair, wear pink polos, and pierce your ears just yet. Decide what you like AND what she says looks good.
 
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I like what blue said...have your own style.

I remember all my friends used to bagg on me for what i wore...but then when i started getting all the b!tches they started asking me out to shop with them.

Wear something that matches your personality...
 
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You should dress as you want. Most American females have ZERO fashion sense. Pure pigs. Flip-flops when they leave the house to go shopping or eat. I feel sorry for you boys. You know there are places on this earth where girls wear heels every single time they go out. Plus they are tall and thin.
 
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wear **** other guys wouldnt wear...be unique...i wear kind of emo **** you know girl pants and tight shirts and tight sqeater but guess what??? girls dont think your a faggot..alot of guys will hate you but girls are just going to like it more....my point is stick out..dont be the same
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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