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Master Don Juan
more 1984ish than Brave New world but yeah that's what I was thinking.Warrior74 said:I think I read that book. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brave_New_World
John the savage was an alpha male though so there's that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
more 1984ish than Brave New world but yeah that's what I was thinking.Warrior74 said:I think I read that book. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brave_New_World
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
that was the tipping point to make me find this site 10 years ago. I damn near worshiped that girl, not only did she do that, but she stood me up on my birthday. lol all i wanted on my birthday was the PRIVILEGE to take her out to eat, she couldn't even give me that.bradd80 said:holy fvck did this really happen??
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Why should he expect retribution? Would she expect retribution if genders were reversed? People would be abhorred if a man did that to a woman and would probably make international headlines not as a joke, but as how women have it so bad.sodbuster said:Did you hear about the Polish man who broke up with his ex[Dentist],then went to her for an extraction.... and she pulled ALL his teeth? On Yahoo news today. The women in my office were ALL "you go girl"....until I told them she'll get JAIL time on this one.
My son said all the girls in college were laughing about it.
2 stupid people involved here. He dumped "princess" and expected no retribution and she ruined her life for revenge.
What did you guys hear about it? I always say b1tches be crazy... but this is getting old