Woman's perspective on guy's relationship status

[warrior1]

As a guy when we see an attractive female, we obviously want to know if their single or not. If they are not single, we definitely can see it and say damn. If we find out that the attractive woman is single, we definitely are delighted b/c we can go after the woman since they are available.

From a woman's perspective, how do they view a guy they are interested in that is single and not single. Obvioulsy if they know the man they are intersted is not single, they know he has value and of course would want him more. Hence, you want something you can't have. This is how I feel about most woman in general.

How do they feel about the man who they are really attracted to and find out that they are single? Do they get happy like us men are when we know the attractive female is currently single? Or do they think a little less of him when they find out hes single?

 

[djSlvt]

You are right on on woman's perspective. They do find you more valuable if you are not single. Let me explain:

Women will flirt with you to stroke their ego. Be it verbal, body language, or otherwise. If they get a relationship guy responde they get that much of an ego boost. It isn't hard to get a single guy reponse.


You are off on man's respective. You did however describe an AFC perspective. That particular perspective is driven by insecurity.


Here is something about women. Women are single only if a) she was dumped, or b) she is fat and ugly. It is very rare for a girl to dump a guy and not have another guy in the scene. This is almost a universal truth... To change you perspective, think about it.


So.. If you are a guy and you are waiting for a single girl, that means you either want a fat and ugly girl, i.e. you are willing to settle for less. OR you are lucky enough to come across girl who was dumped, i.e. chances are good she will be using you because you are all she has for now, she is using you to get from point a) (her ex) to point b) (next guy better than you).


The above is an AFC's life.


Proper perspective is such that women we want are never single. So if she is not single, sarge on. It says a lot about you, such as you have confidence.


When you sarge a relationship girl she will test you hard. Throw at you some hard b1tch shields that you must be disarm and move on with her, if you are to show her that you are more valuable than her current guy. The only time this is not as bad is when you are HOT, rich, successful, and famous.


Thus we come to the idea of improving yourself. I.e. making yourself more valuable to women. Bottom line of all PUA material is to improve yourself, it is always about you, never about women.

 

[2_intense2]

How do they feel about the man who they are really attracted to and find out that they are single?

single guys are available, and like you've said we want what we can't have.
So personally single guys are ok, but attached guys are more FUN to play with, expecially if they are responsive/ attracted to you. Then it becomes this twisted game of; if ONLY you were single.

do they think a little less of him when they find out hes single?

if a guy is single, then I automatically start to think WHY?Basically I want to know what the hell is wrong with the guy.

 

[mrRuckus]

There are plenty of single women who weren't just dumped or who are fat and ugly.

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I often get "how the hell are you single?" I don't think it matters all that much. If you're an awesome guy to begin with why do you need that "over the hump" thing to get a girl interested by being unavailable?

 

[Serialized3]

Basicall, social proof dicates that if women know you're attractive to other women, you become more attractive to them.

All hail Robert Cialdini!

 

[Raikojo17]

There are plenty of single women who weren't just dumped or who are fat and ugly.

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I often get "how the hell are you single?" I don't think it matters all that much. If you're an awesome guy to begin with why do you need that "over the hump" thing to get a girl interested by being unavailable?

i agree. if you're a good guy and know you are worth something, then you wont need to play all these stupid unavailable games to get chicks. that stuff is jus gay anyway.

 

[djSlvt]

It doesn't matter what any of you think. Value wise, single is less valuable to a girl than taken.


Further more, there are many single women. Why are they single? Show me a girl who is single because she dumped her boyfriend.


There aren't many reasons for a girl to stay single.



You see, you folks think single girl, a good girl, a good single girl. If girl is single, indeed, no way she is good, she probably a slvt, but that means she is not single.


There are many single women, statement, is only true with presumption that she is single because a) she was dumped, or b) she is fat and ugly..


It is easy to prove this theory. Go on myspace, or plentyoffish.com.. Talk to women, why are they single? You might find that most that list them selves as single, aren't actually single giving you an excuse that they forgot to change that one thing in their profile. (means they are on there to get attention and ego boost) You might find some single girls who really mean it, but they will be new in town, with issues, fat and ugly, hubby just went to jail, etc...

Real life? Go out to bars to find single girls, why are they single? Subject of who dumped who will be very sensitive.


It was tried, and proven, as far as I'm concerned. Quality women I want are never single.

 

[Jay Jay]

Too much thought is going into this methinks.

If it worries you that girls will judge you for being single try the following line to the question "are you single?"

"Single and loving it!" That will tell the girl that its your choice, that you are still getting ***** and she'll have to work to pull you.

Anyway, don't stress about this... it really is nothing.

JJ

 

[Raikojo17]

Too much thought is going into this methinks.

If it worries you that girls will judge you for being single try the following line to the question "are you single?"

"Single and loving it!" That will tell the girl that its your choice, that you are still getting ***** and she'll have to work to pull you.

Anyway, don't stress about this... it really is nothing.

JJ

also true.


also there are plenty of women out there that are single and beautiful, who have not dumped there bf's or are messed up. you must go sarging on couples night or something.

 

[sexxyback]

youre all wrong

 

[djSlvt]

Uh, sure, she tell you.


You go sargin couple of nights. And you see if you can get to the bottom of why she is single. It's one thing that what she tells you (if in fact you got to that point), it's another why she really is single. I can tell if she making sh1t up or is straight up with me. Pretty girl, single, and straight up about it, no where to find.

 

[warrior1]

i found this interesting on another forum i posted. One poster said

"Unless the guy has just gotten out of a relationship, most women think WHAT'S WRONG W/HIM? Then they spend lots of time trying to figure out what's wrong w/the guy instead of enjoying getting to know him. We're happy when we find out someone is single, they're skeptical when they find out someone is single."

Why do women say WHAT'S WRONG WITH HIM? Us men when we find out a woman is single... we don't say What's Wrong with him and we definitely don't waste our time trying to figure what's wrong with her. Can anyone explain this a bit further?

Do you women go "he didn't got off a relationship and he's single this whole time and he looks good" Why doesn't that attractive man have a g/f? I am just writing thoughts I think you woman are saying? Can you elaborate a bit on this b/c we guys certainly don't think like that at all whatsoever. Thanks.

 

[knglerxt]

Proper perspective is such that women we want are never single. So if she is not single, sarge on. It says a lot about you, such as you have confidence.


When you sarge a relationship girl she will test you hard. Throw at you some hard b1tch shields that you must be disarm and move on with her, if you are to show her that you are more valuable than her current guy. The only time this is not as bad is when you are HOT, rich, successful, and famous.

No. This just shows that you have no respect for people.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

I think that's true about women trynna fix us.

These hoes is trifling..

 

[Sp1kez]

I was actually talking about this to my good friend HB9, she brought it up actually....we were walking around some stores and she noticed that some girls were checking me out, she then asked me if more girls look at me more when I'm with her and I told her that they do, it's called social proof, but don't flatter yourself cos guys check you out more when you're with me...haha...and we discussed why girls would liek to go after me more when I'm seen with her than when I'm seen by myself, we couldn't figure it out but it must have something to do with being seen as valuable......it is also a bad thing though, sicne a girl who might have been interested might be turned off by thinking you're taken.....some girls won't try to snatch a guy off another girl

 

[Rebound Material]

It is also a bad thing though, sicne a girl who might have been interested might be turned off by thinking you're taken.....some girls won't try to snatch a guy off another girl

True that, but they sure as hell would still want him regardless.

 

[Abbott]

if a guy is single, then I automatically start to think WHY?Basically I want to know what the hell is wrong with the guy.

So it's a Catch-22?

 

[Master Bates]

So it's a Catch-22?

Just sounds like retarded chick logic. Move on...

 

[Abbott]

Just sounds like retarded chick logic. Move on...

Phew...

 

[afrojiggles]

huh !!