"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Woman's partner count OK: whats too much for a guy

countwoofoolah

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So I've just seen two threads that boil down to what's the real deal with a woman's sexual partner count

In response : for a guy what's the line of "you have been around too much"

I'm gonna be honest I've lost count but I'd say about 30-35 for me and I'm 23 , lost my v at 15

No right or wrong but curious
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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19 for me and all my buddies call me a man h0r. Most if them are 3 or less.
 

doodlebug

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around 10-13, out of these there was one relationship the rest were one night stands and some ****buddies. I lost is at 18, could have lost it earlier but i was a beta *****. Atleast i got a bj at 16 lol
 
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