I knew she's interested (based on her behaviours when she was around me) and was just playing hard to get. I didn't have to put up with anything as I was stacking dates and subtly let her know that her flakiness did not affect me at all and I still went out and had a great time. When she flaked, I went out with another chick (or chicks, if I went dancing). I put her on the queue. However, everytime she did that, I deducted points off her relationship material benchmark. I did technically "next" her after the first few flakes i.e I knew it wasn't worth it to pursue a relationship with that girl. I just kept her there as a potential lay (although that was a lousy lay, as it turned out).edger said:
I fvcked her on the second date. It just took a fair few flakes to get the first date, and then more BS before the second date.
A lot of guys get emotional (i.e pissed off, angry etc.) when chicks flake on them and are too eager to use the ultimate weapon - "Next" - to ease that pissed off feeling. I don't. It takes a hell lot to get me angry (can't remember last time that happened). I just change my priorities.
Now this doesn't happen with every girl. Some flake on me and never accept a date, and I know they aren't interested so I don't ask them out again. Some flake on me and then my priorities change and I haven't found a time to fit them into my new schedule. In this case, it just happened that when she agreed to a date and showed up, I had nothing better to do, so I went out with her and fvcked her. And of course I just had to dump her after that.
