Woman will quit Tinder for me...

[casanova_goat]

I had an interesting exchange the other day with the chick I am seeing. My misadventures with her are well chronicled here. Contrary to how it may appear on the surface, I took it as her believing we are engaged in something more serious. What says you?

She told me about a conversation she recently had with a guy on Tinder. She lamented the guy saying if she put on 20 pounds she would look better. I disagree with the guy and so did she but that is besides the point.

Well, she went on to say she wasn't on Tinder to meet anyone and, in a supplicating manner, exclaimed, "I could get rid of the app if you want me to."

Is it just me, or does that sound like something a chick would say to her boyfriend? I mean, why else would she need my permission to use the app to soak up the attention she apparently needs? I said I didn't care if she used the app. Which is the truth. I really find none of those men as a threat to me and her, whatever the prospects of me and her are. Her ex, on the other hand, I could see her run back to at a moment's notice.

 

[CMNILS87]

Reverse psychology. She asks you and Gage's your interest to see how much you like her. If you say yes, then she knows you like her a lot. If you defer and play aloof she still has to figure you out. Deflect and ask for a date again.

 

[casanova_goat]

Reverse psychology. She asks you and Gage's your interest to see how much you like her. If you say yes, then she knows you like her a lot. If you defer and play aloof she still has to figure you out. Deflect and ask for a date again.

True -- that could be it as well. But I think she knows my interest level by now, we've known each other for 4+ months.