El Payaso
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Woman who lied about being gang raped won't get any jail time
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Four felony convictions at age 19 isn't exactly escaping punishment.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
These b*tches are ruthless.
I've been accused of sexual harassment many years ago whilst I was in Singapore.
She got caught in the lie and luckily for me, unknown to both of us, there were hidden cameras in the workplace.
Ultimately HR decided to sacked her even after I declined to press any charges.
Back then the Singapore government had this weird law on sexual harassment - a women does not need prove, only her word that it happened would be grounds for prosecution.
She got caught in the lie and luckily for me, unknown to both of us, there were hidden cameras in the workplace.
Ultimately HR decided to sacked her even after I declined to press any charges.
Back then the Singapore government had this weird law on sexual harassment - a women does not need prove, only her word that it happened would be grounds for prosecution.
I was invited to work in Singapore and that incident made me aware of how precarious i was to be in that situation, reason enough to quit my job and leave Singapore behind.
What was weird, it wasn't a Singaporean woman who made it up, it was a Chinese national from Shanghai - that fact alone made people suspicious.
The company's vice president - HR personally apologise to me for all the ruckus it caused and told me she was furious that a fellow woman would stoop so low, hinting that women from China are great manipulators.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.