"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Woman who abuse Men

Thane_Blackwood

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I just wanted to talk about cases of women abusing men. I've always wanted to discuss this so I'll take the time to do it now. What I want to ask is how come we never here about flip side of women abusers? From what I've gathered it happens much more often than people realize. A couple of years ago I watch an evidence tape on television (might have been the channel TruTV) of a women chasing her husband down with a butcher knife whilst he was filming her. He proceeded to show the many cut marks and scars on his back that his wife had done to him. Another case I watched by way of a documentary was a man who was terrified of his wife, her crazy ass would hang knives over the bed and at one time know him out cold with a statue as he entered his home. I've also seen first hand women beating the living hell out of their boyfriends or husbands along with verbal abuse. We just don't hear about these things and the court system isn't helping matters. From what I propose, I think a lot of men who are abused are afraid to say it. They don't want to hit women so they allow it to happen. So have you had a male friend who has been in these situations?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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beenthereall

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In China (I live in a major city there) it is rampant and I have witnessed it live at least a half a dozen times. The instance that sticks out is one morning in the crowded subway this girl is just wailing on her significant other, and he's just kind of taking it/dodging it...but since the car was crowded people were becoming agitated, and started intervening once her slaps and hits became harder and not to mention the screaming.

In China the women tend to be the pants wearing figures in most relationships..although it's somewhat rare that a women would do this in public to her man (in public they respect the husband so he has face and is seen as powerful-but at home they run the show completely)...one can just wonder what goes on behind closed doors.
 

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Incompetence is its own punishment. A trained man would simply have blocked a blow, moved in, tied her up in any of a dozen holds, sat on her an laughed at her. That would get rid of her immediately, women can't STAND being subverted in public. :) If you can't fight, why not? Spend the time and money to become skilled, or suffer the consequences.
 

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If you are in a relationship where your significant other is hitting you then you deserve to be in that relationship. Common sense and self-control would tell anyone to avoid the relationship. People who allow themselves have no perceived self-value.
 
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