"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Woman was a sex machine, then went cold, what happened?

KCGuy

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Fellow DJs,

Man, I've just had one of the worst experiences in my life. Let me start from the top. Met this girl a little before Christmas last year. Things were smooth, I was DJing her properly and within a few weeks we were having sex. Problem of course being that she had a boyfriend. That was cool with me because I wasn't looking for a serious relationship from her. However, I thought that this would have been the understanding between us until she decided that she was going to leave her boyfriend and wanted to be exclusive with me. I told he no, I was happy with the arrangement we had. Flash forward a month later and we go through a preganancy scare. Throughout this whole time she was a sexual monster. I mean we were having sex sometimes 2-3 times a day. We are having sex in public, in parks, in bathroom stalls, all over the place. Flash forward to just over a month ago. She is taking her exams, but I notice that she is not taking my calls as readily as before. She all of a sudden has no time for me and her work, some part time job at the university, suddenly becomes more important than seeing me. I beleive she has found another dude, which I would be cool with if she would just admit it to me. However, my biggest complaint is that there is no more sex. We've had sex once in the last month, and that was because she needed something from me. I don't understand this situations at all. Once she was a sex maniac and all of a sudden she's celibate. What gives?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KCGuy

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Yeah, I realize that, but my question is more general. How come women can switch from being so sexual one minute to becoming cold to your touch? It's like what you here married men say all the while. She was a sex fiend one second then becomes a dead fish after marriage. What gives?
 

picard

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if you think women are like machines, they are probably use Microsoft software which crash frequently. :crackup:

You just have to reboot her. now , it is tricky to find reboot button on her. :crackup: :crackup:
 

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They usually transfer their feelings to the other person. I somehow think the pregnancy scare might have been a wake up call for her too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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