“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BobFuest

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so this woman breaks it off with me after an extended period of time(8 months). No big deal, i get a little sad about it but then remember who i am and what I am about and so forget about her. In any case, she keeps chasing me. She calls me non-stop and has even made up things to get me to see her. One day i was totally ignoring her calls and she told me that she was at a bar and someone tried to rape her and she needed a ride(after she called 15 times) so i went over there and it was all a story. So i told her I am glad she is ok but that is the only reason i came. She BEGS me to stay. Begged me. WTF? I just dont get it. We had a great thing and it went a little south so I screwed it up by trying to be a fixer and she nexted me. Understandable. The thing i dont get is this, why wont she stop calling? You think she was fvckin with me? I dont pretend to be a good gauge of IL but i would have said she was in the 70s or 80s a day or two before she tossed me. She was begging me to be her boyfriend and getting jealous that I was looking for something else.She said she dont deserve me. She even spent all her money on a Cab over to my house to have sex with me. (before the break up)
I have seen her once since all this and it was good hanging out but she didnt seem like she was all that interested so i left. I wonder if she is still interested in me and she was just fvckin with me? She does say and do things without thinking or that she will regret later but she has not ever said she wanted me back. In any case its a matter of if i want her back but i do wonder what is goin on in that head of hers.
 

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Ah, the returning fox!

Women will react to their emotions. When you work at moving on, she feels unwanted, undesireable, and jealous of any other woman who feels wanted and desired by you. She's doing what's natural to make those feelings go away, she's pursuing you! Once those negative feelings are gone, she loses interest because it's no longer bothering her. You try moving on again and those feelings come back! She again reacts to them, and the cycle continues.
 

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p.s. i just found out that the night she didnt seem that interested she turned out to be real sick later that night and the next day.That would go along with her not seeming interested behavior. She said she was feeling sick but i thought she was just bullsh1ting.
 
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Not particularly women, but when people feel alone or ignored they will try to contacting the one that USED (remember the key word is USED) to persue some sort of relationship/friendship with them. But the thing you should remember is how that person last treat you or at least last communicated to you. If it wasn't that spectacular and you did almost most effort in trying to hang or talk to them, and now 1-2 months later they're trying to make an effort, fluff them off.

Girls know that if a guy calls them more than a week later after giving them a phone they know the guy isn't that interested and puts him in a position of lower interest. You should do the exact same thing when women or even men won't respond to you positively. It's always a sign that they don't appreciate you as a person.
 

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The best way to treat a returning fox is like a two dollar hooker. Make her suck your c0ck then tell her to go home. Trust me, she'll do it cuz like Desdinova said, she feels unwanted and undesirable so she'll do anything to get rid of those feelings, even degrade herself even more.

Don't feel bad for treating her like a piece of meat because she is doing the exact same thing trying to play you as an emotional tampon. She's using you to make herself feel better emotionally. Once she has you in her pvssy lock, you'll be on here crying to us again about her. Thats what she really wants - your balls.

So give them to her but on her chin :rockon:
 

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BobFuest said:
One day i was totally ignoring her calls and she told me that she was at a bar and someone tried to rape her and she needed a ride(after she called 15 times) so i went over there and it was all a story.
This fvckin cvnt falsely cries rape? You should have reported the piece of sh!t.

Bahhhh.....anyway Desdinova nailed IT'S reasoning.
 

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Allow me to clarify brother Boobs comment regarding the " Fvckin cvnt"

What he most gloriously alluded to was that this dishrag wh0re should be filled air tight by every herpe and scoriasis laden degenerate stewing in his own filth.

Personally, I think the guy was a fool runnin' out there when she cried for him to save her. He deserved what he got. A life lesson to be tucked away and saved for that rainy day.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Allow me to clarify brother Boobs comment regarding the " Fvckin cvnt"

What he most gloriously alluded to was that this dishrag wh0re should be filled air tight by every herpe and scoriasis laden degenerate stewing in his own filth.

Personally, I think the guy was a fool runnin' out there when she cried for him to save her. He deserved what he got. A life lesson to be tucked away and saved for that rainy day.
It wasnt as bad as all that. And yes I deserved the face fvck ******* i got for it.
 

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allow me to clarify. We have only really not been together a week and we really were not fighting or hating each other before the break up.
She nexted me because i was acting like an afc. always asking and never taking. We were together too much also, we went traveling almost every other weekend and saw each other all the time.
So, as soon as i stood up and said no more and ignored her for a few days she wanted me back. She had called almost 60 times in those 3 days (about 20 a day) saying she wants me and she is so sorry. Also, she probably knows that as soon as she broke it off i went out and had sex with as many women as possible. only 2 but it was only 3 days.
This weekend i told her to stfu. She is my possesion and i dont want to her anymore about it.She may get mad when i dont do what she wants but she will get over it.I am thru with her tests and I wont play them. If she makes me mad I will ram my pen1s in her a$$ and give her something to cry about :)
So in the end it seems that I learned these things about all of it:
-all she wanted was for me to be a man. she wants me throw her down and fvck her brains out and not listen to anything she complains about.
-When she whines to walk away and ignore her until she is sorry.
-she is probably really in love with me. I didnt decide this on words but actions. too many to get into detail about but from the look of things she is madly in love with me and just gets so emotional when she gets mad that she will say things she wont mean 15 minutes later.
 

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BobFuest said:
One day i was totally ignoring her calls and she told me that she was at a bar and someone tried to rape her and she needed a ride(after she called 15 times)

"I think you mis-dialed 911"
 

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MacAvoy said:
I think you need to stop posting every little problem and start reading the bible more. You come here in a panick for every little problem that you have when all the answers you need are in the bible. Your behavior is almost troll like.

Click here for BobFuest's many recent threads
its been a month and its not every little problem.
And where did i say i had a problem? i was asking for an opinion on a situation. nothing needs to be fixed. i fixed it myself. i just wonder what others think.
it helps to talk to people about things. I think alot better when i have something to bounce my ideas off.
What is this forum for again? I swore it was problems that your having with women
last, if you read those posts you would know that u are being redundent and that its been said before and thats why i stopped asking.
 
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