"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Woman trying to get her male orbiter back?

ThisNThat

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This is pathetic, This woman, who I think this message is between her "male friend" made a post with pictures of him and her at certain events.

She said in haste, during her emotional ups and downs, she deleted him off of FB and now...regrets it. And has posted her apology to him ON her front page. There's pictures of each other doing "cheek kisses" and I really fail to see the purpose of airing her dirty laundry on FB as opposed to going to him directly?

She was like "I'm such an ass much, I am so sorry."

And I'm like "Why don't you tell HIM that, instead of posting it online?"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BetterCallSaul

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Why even care what she thinks?
 
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