Woman thinks that advice to wives of cheating husbands to give him more sex is wrong

[MatureDJ]

http://www.salon.com/2013/04/16/bad_advice_for_cheated_wives/

A former escort turned "infidelity counselor" tells women to give their husbands more sex. It's not the answer

Why is the answer telling the wife to lie back and take it, so to speak, instead of advising the husband that he might get more sex by actually helping out with childcare? That’s a facetious question: It’s because women are the designated sexual gatekeepers; they’re charged with controlling men’s sexuality. Thus we have the all-too-common advice that wives should put out regardless of jerk behavior — because God forbid that dĩck’s dĩck wanders!

My opinion of the advice:

My opinion of the author:

 

[samspade]

Hyphenated surname? Check.

Ugly mug? Check.

Manjaw? Check.

Hackneyed feminist schlock peddling? Check.

Sh*t, if I were married to that I'd help out with childcare to GET OUT of sex.

Because God forbid if that ****'s **** softens at the sight of you!

 

[DJDamage]

I like this gem from this author:

Why is the answer telling the wife to lie back and take it, so to speak, instead of advising the husband that he might get more sex by actually helping out with childcare?

why you ask?! because that belief of helping around the house to get more sex has been debunked!!!

http://www.france24.com/en/20130130-more-housework-less-sex-married-men-study

Yes maybe the husband should have gotten a divorce before he cheated but men unlike women do not destroy a home when they cheat because ( also unlike women) they are capable of loving more then one woman. However if that woman become's frumpy and overweight after marriage and stops doing all the nasty things he liked before they got hitched, he will look elsewhere to try and find it rather then have his nuts cut off in the divorce court either way.

 

[Don_Dom]

Kitty Stryker wrote a great piece for the Huffington Post on what she’s learned about marital dissatisfaction from her hitched clients. Her advice boils down to this: Talk with your partner. Rather than giving out grudging blow jobs like doggie treats, communicate openly, honestly and without judgment about your mutual needs and desires. What a concept.

Oh yeah, because women live in a world of rational logic and are capable of open and honest discussion of needs AND following through with them without judgement.

This author is in fantasyland. Women will DO exactly what they FEEL like doing regardless of what her man needs. Although she is partially correct on one thing....Infidelity isn't always about sex. Men will go outside the mariage for sex because his wife just isn't woman enough to keep him from doing so. That could be a lack of sex or it could be because she doesn't treat him like a man but more like a kitchen appliance with a wallet, a babysitter, etc.

I don't condone infidelity. But given the modern legal climate for men in divorces, I'm not really sure I can blame guys for doing it.

 

[Down Low]

simply comes down to not giving their men enough sex.

Keep a man's sperm duct drained, and he won't cheat? Makes sense to me. If a woman does that, he can't cheat. Problem solved. Nothing else will matter. The hooker really does know men.

I grew up being told very matter-of-factly by my unusual parents that “sex is the glue that holds a marriage together” (and after 35 happy years together, I’m gonna take their word for it).

More sex = more-bonded marriage? Makes sense to me. I'd add that arguments are settled in the marriage bed. "Kiss and make up" solves the problem. Nothing else will matter. What kind of awful cvnt would disrespect her own parents' time-proven wisdom by distancing herself from them as being "unusual?" Especially if she's at the same time trying to sell herself as having good family advice?

...women are the designated sexual gatekeepers; they’re charged with controlling men’s sexuality.

Wrong, couldn't be more wrong, totally bass-ackwards femcvnt brainwashing, and even many DJs here repeat this as if it's true. "Gatekeeper" my ass. (This whole '80s crap theory about "gatekeepers" was a giant step backward for America. To disprove it, all you had to do was look at all the Mexicans who simply went around the gate!) Treating a man like a little boy who needs to be controlled -- this is not going to work, if for no other reason, when he disagrees with being denied, he can simply fvck some other woman. Which is what this article is about. Feminist concepts, when they become behaviors, create the very problems they claim to prevent.

Fact is, women want men to dominate them. Women put up resistance only due to their own low self-esteem: they want reassurance that they are still objects of high sexual and marital value. Women have low self-esteem for the simple reason that they are mere objects measured for their worth in coitus and childbearing.