"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Woman Talking To There Ex Boyfriends

SgtSplacker

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I have always had good results just changing the relationship as soon as I notice things like that. I'll just start treating her like a friend, less contact, no more checking in on her, going out with other girls, being very whatever with her.

When she asks what happened just say that you really aren't looking to be in the kind of relationship she is offering. And that you are not the type to fight or fuss about something that she so obviously wants to do. Watch how you flip the script on that silly HO.

He's the ex for a reason, don't forget that.

Oh and find out who broke up with who too... critical info there...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Im intereseted on what you guys what do if you are with her and she were talking to her ex's what would you do/say?
 

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Let's put the shoe on the other foot:

If you were this chick's ex boyfriend and you asked the general opinion of posters what your chances of getting this girl back into bed was considering she was seeing another guy?

Guaranteed they would tell you your princess was in another castle!

It all depends though. Was she upfront about it or did you find out another way? I doubt a real man secure in himself would really care but one must question her motives. Healthy skepticism never hurt anyone.
 

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It doesn't matter unless I plan on marrying her



P.S. I don't plan on getting married
 

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Frayzer said:
Im intereseted on what you guys what do if you are with her and she were talking to her ex's what would you do/say?
I played it off for a little while. I dated a broad for over a year and her ex was still trying to get with her almost up until I dumped her. When I first met her I guess they where dating or FB buddies, I didn't really care. She dropped him and was in my castle. She always told me when ever he contacted her or made a visit at her work. I'd pretty much say oh that's nice. A part of me just didn't give an F. Poor chump couldn't move on, I don't get how a dude could waste so much time AND MONEY.

She was never really talking to him or maybe she was? It was kind of nice tho, he would buy her flowers all the time. I would tell her Oh that's great I guess I don't need to buy you any you already have enough! At one point he convinced her to go to lunch with him and she told me he started crying in the restaurant. I was not happy that she went to lunch with him but at the same time she said that was the STUPIDEST thing she has ever done! I agreed with her. Grown man crying at lunch in public.

I posted earlier and it's as simple as this, find out as soon as you can if there are ex's lingering and if their is. F*ck that move on! Some b*tches will hide it and are really good at it, IME.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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