"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Woman sees other other womens names on phone after sex with man, then claims rape

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just did a legal continuing ed class with evidence and domestic components. Guys, I can't stress heavily enough how important it is to think before engaging in random/new sex acts today as a man.

If your state allows it, use a cheap, small digital recorder, using a phone will be a hassle and run the battery. Keep the environment in mind. Did anyone see you with her? see her drinking? Did she come to your place? Did she have time to "get ready" in the bathroom? Lingerie? Whole host of factors. If you just go out in a car and have sex with a stranger, you are assuming massive risk.

When having sex with a new woman today, you are taking huge risks. Do everything in your power and common sense to evidence her willingness and consent, and even then you are at risk.

The only conclusion to be drawn from the cases I see is that there is a definite, large subset of women out there who are perfectly willing to lie and ruin someone's life merely due to getting their feelings hurt, or simply not getting everything they want. MSM and fictional entertainment, crap shows such as Law & Order SVU, feminist lies about "rape culture" have really poisoned the jury pool and public opinion. Be very careful out there.
 
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