"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Woman planned to kill Hitler...but the point is game.

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ArcBound

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Lol I guess this post would really affirm the "alphamale" archetype. FFS she went after JFK an extremely well known womanizer, John Wayne who was an ideal man and etc...

"'He never said "I love you" or anything like that,' she recalled.
'One rather expects that kind of thing, those words, even if delivered in perfect insincerity."

This struck me so much because its a lot of what we preach here. Don't say meaningless expressions on love, but be able to show it through your actions. You don't need to say insincere and countless I love you's or buy worthless flowers.

"'He was a very rich man but he never gave me even a simple token, like a scarf,' said Dietrich.
'I think he wanted to be sure you really liked him, just for himself alone. He wasn't very comfortable when it came to women.'"

This part also...You can tell he wasn't an AFC who just showered his girl with sh!t.

"She had been enamoured of John Wayne, her co-star in The Spoilers, filmed in 1942. When she first saw him, she was struck by his 'broad shoulders and flat behind', but what most appealed to her was that he wasn't vain or arrogant.
'Far from it, he was insecure as an actor,' she said"

This I thought was kinda weird though. In PUA and even this website, we preach irrational self confidence. But then we have this dude just being him for him and she loved him for it. I guess there is a lesson to be learned from this.
 

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ArcBound said:
"She had been enamoured of John Wayne, her co-star in The Spoilers, filmed in 1942. When she first saw him, she was struck by his 'broad shoulders and flat behind', but what most appealed to her was that he wasn't vain or arrogant.
'Far from it, he was insecure as an actor,' she said"

This I thought was kinda weird though. In PUA and even this website, we preach irrational self confidence. But then we have this dude just being him for him and she loved him for it. I guess there is a lesson to be learned from this.
Status + vulnerability = wet panties. He can have any woman, everyone loves him, is literally america's wet dream of what an alpha male is, but she can see his warm and tender side. Of course her view is from being his lover, not his accountant, director or man on the street. They would never see that side of him. The same way girls say about their thug boyfriends, "but he's really a sweet guy, you don't know him like I do!"
 

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Come on guys. JFK. He's the frickin president. I doubt that he had to be "alpha" to get a woman's interest - especially Marlene Dietrich's, who was well known for making herself important by sleeping with the rich and mighty. So unless you are all presidents I doubt you can really learn anything.

And about Hitler: it says she had the THOUGHT of maybe trying to kill him. Typical British news, twisting some words and suddenly it's a huge story.
 
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