Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Pvssy gets easier and cheaper for alphas, betas needed marriage to land a woman, then later they needed marriage to land a left over and now not even that.Zarky said:
Yes. well said.Who Dares Win said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Women used to be able give something in return for marriage - sex, something that they withheld from men until marriage. Men were happy to get into marriage, and the fidelity that went along with it - after all, sex is the most powerful motivator for males.Burroughs said:women look at marriage AS AN AGENDA ON THEIR LIFE CHECKLIST EVEN IF THEY GIVE NOTHING IN RETURN...WE AS MEN SHOULD NOT SUPPORT THIS IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM...in my marriage contract i want 7 BJs a week and buttsecks once a week...then we can talk flowers and wedding
if you are under 35 and you are willingly seeking marriage in this retrograde age you deserve what you get.