"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Woman laments that eHarmony date overstated height by 2"

ThunderMaverick

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D!ck wagging aside, any guy would be pissed if their date from POF was 10 pounds heavier than her picture. She had a preference and the guy BS'd her.

What's with the double standard? She stated what she liked and the guy lied. Why shouldn't she be irritated?

If I ask for cheese on my whopper and I don't get it...I'm sending the motherfu<ker back.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bigjohnson

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ThunderMaverick said:
D!ck wagging aside, any guy would be pissed if their date from POF was 10 pounds heavier than her picture. She had a preference and the guy BS'd her.
While I agree with you, you have to know that the above happens more than not. Online dating is a wasteland.
 

f283000

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ThunderMaverick said:
D!ck wagging aside, any guy would be pissed if their date from POF was 10 pounds heavier than her picture. She had a preference and the guy BS'd her./QUOTE]
That's why you always ask for her to take a pic of herself from head to toe before your date (and you do the same). You tell her this is to keep things honest bla bla lba
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mrRuckus

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SoldMySoul said:
Hotornot, I usually pull around a 9 or so as well, so my looks not much of a problem.
Unless you're ugly, everyone pulls an 8 or 9 on hotornot. Really, you can stick up damn near any picture and get that. You can even leave out your face.
 
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