Woman keeping her distance, is it an age thing?

[Serg897]

Hey all,

I post this in the mature man forum for two reasons --- one is because I find that I often have more to relate when it comes to the topics discussed here (even though Im only 23). The other reason will become apparent in a minute.

There is a lady I have been seeing the past two or so months. We get along very well and I have a great time with her. In September I saw her roughly once per week - she lives about 50 minutes away so seeing her often is difficult logistically. Now, that has decreased somewhat, due to our schedules but I suspect there may be other underlying reasons.

The bottom line is the past few weeks she has been distant. Hardly any calling or texting from her. I did initiate last week, and she was still receptive - we met up in a nearby city and went to a festival, then dinner, then back to her place and I slept over (+ had sex in the morning). She is reliable and will pick up the phone when I call her, and answer my texts, and agree to see me, but when it comes to any initiative or effort on her part it has been totally absent lately. Im trying to understand why.

One theory I have is that she is hesitant because she knows I am younger than her. We had a conversation about it earlier this month and I simply dodged the question, now Im wondering if this was a mistake. She told me this weekend she was born during Jimmy Carters administration when we were chatting about politics, so that puts her at about 30-33.

What am I doing seeing a woman so much older? I just get along better with them. There is always less bull****, and they seem to be more willing to be team players. My girlfriend last year was 28. It seems to be a pattern.

I have been in this sort of situation enough times to know that its a bad idea to bring up the subject when a woman decides she wants to keep her distance. This is why I said nothing this weekend, and why I haven't done anything (or spoken to her) since. To be frank Im not even 100% sure what I want from this woman. Im just trying to figure out how to proceed here, and seeking some perspective from the forum.

Thanks for reading.

 

[DJ SO STEVE]

I find the only reason people care so much about a specific issue is because there are no other women in their lives.

If you were dating lets say realistically 3-5 women this wouldn't matter. I say keep your game going and don't care so much because when you care too much things backfire and its GAME OVER.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Serg,
It's called Pvussy Power,she knows she has it.

 

[Serg897]

I like the blunt responses on here. Sometimes its easy for me to forget how simple it is. Thanks.

 

[nismo-4]

Judge nismo sees yet another simple ass case serg!

You must not have a lot of women (options) in your life because if you did, you wouldn't worry about this. And this girl is dangling the carrot (pu$$y) knowing you'll pursue it, but never catch it. If this girl was truly interested, she wouldn't be so distant. But the fact that she's being more distant means that either:

A. She's losing interest
B. She's found another man
C. She's noticed you're too emotionally involved/ have few options
D. She's been put on a pedestal

And not in any particular order either. Women in particular are confusing creatures, with their pu$$y as their highest value, now it's just a woman's love in general that's got a high value. You better spin some plates bro, or you will be fined for oneitis development. That's my ruling.

Case closed.