I've been talking to and dating this woman for quite some time now, and I think we are ready to take it further.
She is a huge over-thinker -- always thinking about what will happen, talking herself out of things, etc.
Well, her problem is that she was single her entire life and doesn't have this experience.
She has always wanted a relationship. We dated, kissed, and it was all well. She said she wanted to get out of her car and kiss me again.
She liked it!
She asked if we can go see a movie this weekend, and I said 'no'. Then she said that's fine, she can go places by herself, I can date other women in the meantime, etc. She is jealous.
She said maybe this just isn't our time. I asked her what her problem was second-guessing this all the time. I told her she needs to decide right now because of I'm tired of mind games.
She said she has always wanted this 'thing' we have, but now that she has it, she is scared of it. She was always just excited to getting to this point, just meeting someone. She hasn't thought this through. She said she doesn't want her insecurities and fear to hold me back. She said she hasn't thought about this part too much, and is also afraid of telling her parents about me if we continue to see each other.
Now I have no idea what to do. I like her, I want to continue to see her, but I am tired of thinking this might work and then having her second guess it.
If it is 'over', I want to get it over with now and mourn over the loss once, not ten times a week.
She says she is not brave enough to go for what she wants and be happy.
She is a huge over-thinker -- always thinking about what will happen, talking herself out of things, etc.
Well, her problem is that she was single her entire life and doesn't have this experience.
She has always wanted a relationship. We dated, kissed, and it was all well. She said she wanted to get out of her car and kiss me again.
She liked it!
She asked if we can go see a movie this weekend, and I said 'no'. Then she said that's fine, she can go places by herself, I can date other women in the meantime, etc. She is jealous.
She said maybe this just isn't our time. I asked her what her problem was second-guessing this all the time. I told her she needs to decide right now because of I'm tired of mind games.
She said she has always wanted this 'thing' we have, but now that she has it, she is scared of it. She was always just excited to getting to this point, just meeting someone. She hasn't thought this through. She said she doesn't want her insecurities and fear to hold me back. She said she hasn't thought about this part too much, and is also afraid of telling her parents about me if we continue to see each other.
Now I have no idea what to do. I like her, I want to continue to see her, but I am tired of thinking this might work and then having her second guess it.
If it is 'over', I want to get it over with now and mourn over the loss once, not ten times a week.
She says she is not brave enough to go for what she wants and be happy.
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