“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Woman hooks up with 2 Chads in Miami in one night

Gamisch

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"Rare nonpromiscuous woman." Did you miss the fact that this woman dated only 1 man from 18 to 32 (from what's implied)? Very promiscuous, indeed. Then she ****ed 2 guys, in a few days, so?
Is this still really a forum where men who seduce women gather, or where boys cry about evil women who have casual sex with attractive guys... It's great that modern women are promiscuous, it lets men be promiscuous as well. There's no logical reason to not enjoy sex in the 21st century with our modern medicine and contraception. The reason women were required to be loyal to one man was purely to avoid paternity scams - you raising another man's child unknowingly. Now we have DNA tests, and in most cases it's not even about making a family. IDK, this is really not a forum for men to learn how to start a family with kids, but to get laid.
Why are you guys bitching about the fact that many women are easy enough to sleep with if you're attractive enough? It's a bad thing only if you are bad at seduction and can't get laid, or don't want this. If Johnny Soporno was still active here, he'd explain to you guys that you're just trying to shoot yourself in the leg.
If you lived in a traditional society, then your perfect wife would've been chosen by your parents, probably your second or third cousin, and not necessarily hot. You'd only ever have sex with her and maybe hookers, that's your entire life buddy. But at least your wife wouldn't be promiscuous, how wonderful! Except, even if this perfect traditional life is your dream, you can still get one just by looking for foreigners in certain countries.
Its a forum aimed at women, seduction AND relationships. If you are somewhat experienced you'll know that this entails much more than simple tricks and tactics; its literally a life long study hence why the forum will NEVER run out of topics.

Some men want more control and better outcomes dealing with women in general. And giving the current climate, more and more men will want the very basics aka get their shyte together and be noticed. 1. The players, 2. The relationship guys and 3. The incels. All deserve equal attention.

So ,two things can be true at the same time: promiscuous women are great if you just wanna play the game, but disastrous if you chase a legacy. Both/ all kinds of men and their searches ought to be respected
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Its a forum aimed at women, seduction AND relationships. If you are somewhat experienced you'll know that this entails much more than simple tricks and tactics; its literally a life long study hence why the forum will NEVER run out of topics.

Some men want more control and better outcomes dealing with women in general. And giving the current climate, more and more men will want the very basics aka get their shyte together and be noticed. 1. The players, 2. The relationship guys and 3. The incels. All deserve equal attention.

So ,two things can be true at the same time: promiscuous women are great if you just wanna play the game, but disastrous if you chase a legacy. Both/ all kinds of men and their searches ought to be respected
If you look a few years back, the forum was completely different—it was almost exclusively about dating women, casually or not. Nowadays, it's mostly about drama and rants about women. I don't think that incels and black pillers really belong in a seduction forum called Sosuave and Don Juan discussions sub-forum. It's literally described as: "Discuss meeting, dating, and attracting women with others. Ask a question or give advice." There are many other places existing specifically to rant about women, or so I assume.

Modern red pill, in general, has become more negative and focused on judging women rather than getting results, too. And I don't think incels (in the sub-culture sense, not the literal one) deserve attention, other than from a therapist. Granted, I don't think that OP is a complete incel, based on some of his earlier threads it seems that once upon a time he, too, was interested in how to seduce women (though in social circle). But in recent years he's been more about complaining than sharing his results or methods to achieve them.
 

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If you look a few years back, the forum was completely different—it was almost exclusively about dating women, casually or not. Nowadays, it's mostly about drama and rants about women.
You know you can fix that? Start new topics about what you feel is important to discuss.
 

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If you look a few years back, the forum was completely different—it was almost exclusively about dating women, casually or not. Nowadays, it's mostly about drama and rants about women. I don't think that incels and black pillers really belong in a seduction forum called Sosuave and Don Juan discussions sub-forum. It's literally described as: "Discuss meeting, dating, and attracting women with others. Ask a question or give advice." There are many other places existing specifically to rant about women, or so I assume.

Modern red pill, in general, has become more negative and focused on judging women rather than getting results, too. And I don't think incels (in the sub-culture sense, not the literal one) deserve attention, other than from a therapist. Granted, I don't think that OP is a complete incel, based on some of his earlier threads it seems that once upon a time he, too, was interested in how to seduce women (though in social circle). But in recent years he's been more about complaining than sharing his results or methods to achieve them.
I understand.

But as with anything, things evolving sometimes for better sometimes for worse.

First of all the " back in the days urrthing was better " posts give me old man yells at clouds - vibes. "The 50's was the peak real man era" ,all the while women got beaten to pulp by their drunk husbands as they couldn't leave ,to name one example.

And untill not too long ago( 15 years before dating apps) the dynamics were different. A man HAD to go out and approach. Now its rather a odd thing to do as tons of women prefer dating apps over everything else. That alone literally left 2/3 of man out. The results show that. Recently in some countries approach even became punishable by law, or some kind of interpretation of approach translating like harassment. HR rules regarding what you can't say or how you can't even look at women at the job...

The stats say that 65% of men don't date. Out of the 35 left some will be married ,some will be ghey so only a small percentage of men experience great dating results with modern women. Maybe 10 or 5 percent actually do get some game.

I get the bravado and the masculine energy, but you also gotta be realistic; if the forum depends on " real man only" you'd get a post every 3 weeks. Dating and the meaning behind it has changed overnight. I've literally witnessed how at least 4 guys I grew up with went on years long dryspells despite they've actually lived with women before ,had long-term relationships ect left and right. But somewhere between 2010 and now they became absolutely invisible to women.

Harsh facts. If anything, the forum is a reflection of what's happening in the game worldwide.
 

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Harsh facts. If anything, the forum is a reflection of what's happening in the game worldwide.
I've always seen it as somewhat of a mirror. That and a study group passing notes around and bumping gums before the big exam. Or griping moaning bytching and complaining about abysmal performance on an exam before summer break and how they'll cope. LOL
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I still believe it's a young kid that does not get context. Times change. The fundamentals have not here on the forum. We are simply observing women to better our understanding of the climate of male and female dynamics. He (or she if they are here to troll), does not realize that this only supports the movement more.
 

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It's great that modern women are promiscuous, it lets men be promiscuous as well.
I agree its great: Its great when you are young, spinning plates, and dont want to go exclusive or marry anytime soon. Its great when you are a "Thrill of the Hunt" man instead a "Pleasure of sex" man. Otherwise its possible its not so great, and it can be hard to find a woman that:

- Passes the boner test
- Is not ran through
- Worthy of going exclusive
- Is interested in you

Now dont get me wrong. Nothing wrong with men who dont want to go exclusive or marry ever or at all. Nothing wrong with being a "Thrill of the Hunt" man. Its a personal preference at the end of the day.
 

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The guy who doxxes all the women should post their photos here

since that’s this websites cool thing wink wink

cool guys doxx slutty women, according to super suave forums
 

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The guy who doxxes all the women should post their photos here

since that’s this websites cool thing wink wink

cool guys doxx slutty women, according to super suave forums
What other "cool things" would you like to burn crosses in front of?

Moreover, what does that have to do with the topic?
 

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Never forget how easy it is for women to get laid. Stop feeling guilty about doing anything to women, unless she's the rare non-promiscuous woman.
I doubt either of them was a Chad. Considering this happened in Miami, I'm guessing it was Carlos and Javier.
 

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Its a forum aimed at women, seduction AND relationships. If you are somewhat experienced you'll know that this entails much more than simple tricks and tactics; its literally a life long study hence why the forum will NEVER run out of topics.
That's why I've stuck around so long. As a human being and a male, I find the topic fascinating, and it's hard to imagine that not being the case.
 

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There are plenty of other reasons not do it. For one, it's disgusting.
5 was always where I drew the line also. I always defined a 5 as "I might be tempted, just because it's easy, but when it comes right down to it, I just can't do it."
 
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