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Look how much this poor statistic has aged and how frail he's become in such a short time. That divorce industry/murder attempt sure does fvck a hapless beta up.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You are dead wrong about this. Getting laid in Canada is not a problem, that much is true. In fact, getting laid anywhere outside of the U.S. is not a problem. Americans are pretty much the only people in the world who make a big deal out of sex (despite being the world's biggest producers of pornography and skanky celebs...go figure).AAAgent said:It's a pretty safe general assumption. The majority of people that complain about women and feminism together are usually the ones that aren't getting laid and relate that to society being taken over by feminism. Are you saying that's not the case?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If you're so adamant about living a family life (wife & kids) why don't you do that then. Whining and crying about how life is unfair to you and man sure as h3ll won't change a thing. If you wan't change, make it happen. You either adapt to your surroundings or change the law. There's already plenty of threads about feminism in North America, so what you're emphasizing isn't new. It also doesn't help with how to be a better man or improve your chance of success with dating or finding a girl to settle down with.Bokanovsky said:You are dead wrong about this. Getting laid in Canada is not a problem, that much is true. In fact, getting laid anywhere outside of the U.S. is not a problem. Americans are pretty much the only people in the world who make a big deal out of sex (despite being the world's biggest producers of pornography and skanky celebs...go figure).
As an American, you probably have a hard time imagining a world where getting laid is not a man's #1 priority in life. As long as you get to stick your pee pee in a wet hole, that's all that matters, right? Well, some of us have graduated from being primarily concerned with our primary physical urges and want something more out of life. We want to live in a society where we are not hated and shamed for being male, where we are not discriminated by the justice system, where we can raise a family without being treated like indentured servants for our wives.
It's called risk-benefit analysis.AAAgent said:If you're so adamant about living a family life (wife & kids) why don't you do that then.
Our laws are a little more clever than you give them credit for. If you cohabit with a woman for more than a year, she is considered your common law spouse. There may not have a piece of paper that spells it out, but she is still basically your wife.AAAgent said:He's able to spend his life with a woman and raise a family without being restricted to our laws.
Something to lose as in what? Money?Danger said:Actually, it's a very poor assumption, and you hit on the reasoning with your comment that .
The reason this is the case is because The men who complain about feminism (misandry) are those who have something to lose, not the men who aren't getting laid. Unless of course you are trying to accuse Berlusconi, a guy known for being a player and consistently scoring hot @ss, of being a guy that can't get laid? The reason most men don't complain is because most men have nothing to lose!!
And those men with something to lose have every right to be angry. The mere fact you refer to is as 'catered' shows your lack of understanding on the problems at hand for a man who wants to keep and retain a family without being punished simply because the wife becomes unhaaaaappy.
To say "you deal with iit or you work around it" is the lazy way out. Would that have been a proper answer to racism? Is that something you would say to blacks? Why would you say it for sexism?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
betheman said:..Meanwhile a woman who was caught red handed, plotting the murder of a man, walks free from court...because she has been through a lot...
the fact is, she conspired to have her ex murdered, this is a crime, how the hell does a person walk free from court?
You are right, if we are going to be that technical, I shouldn't have told my personal expectation of your reaction publicly. But I am disappointed to say, you reacted exactly as I had expected...!Danger said:It should not matter one bit who posts something, only it's content and reasonablility. If you are basing your decisions on author instead of content, then that is a fault with your reasonability, not mine.
This isn't meant to generalize but is yet another anectode ...Danger said:This isn't meant to generalize, but is yet another anecdote in the case of "the poor hurt beaten wife" and the case against her ex, even though clearly there is no case.
Did you collect enough anectodes? How many anectodes did you collect? Plus, merely collecting anectodes like pebbles still doesn't make or win an argument. When you say things like "there's clearly injustice here", you have to back that up, too. Because she was admitted in a court of law. And that "fact" doesn't seem to faze you guys one bit!...And it's the most important fact, because we *assume* that they made these debates FOR us, that's the fundamental principle of the modern justice system, no?Danger said:If you collect enough anecdotes, pretty soon they are no longer anecdotes.
And wow, just wow. You are making it sound like I can't even ask that question anymore around here. Of course I am asking that question, yes. It is not an undeniable fact, and it certainly isn't as prevalent as you guys are claiming because much of what you project as essentials is speculative decisions, at best...! And again, the counter always ticks upward, because you never bring here major injustice against women, like gang-rapes in India, or pay-inequalities or all the other shít that women have to go through everywhere, just because they are women.Danger said:Your comment seems to call into question whether there is really misandry today? Is that really what you are saying here?
Didn't mean to be insulting. I apologize. I think you are projecting the facts that cater to your understanding of the situation. Your surefire confidence in this is what looks dubious. You're refusing to even consider anything that could invalidate your basic claim here. Example: she *may* have had severe PTSD and Depression due to abuse in her marriage. This is what I meant by distortion.Danger said:I am invested in equality. Not this particular item, but I have seen enough like them to know how the system works. But honestly at this point you are being insulting. I have distorted nothing, and surprisingly you have no evidence to back up your claim.
That "voilà" comment is coming a little too fast. My favorite question: How do you know she gets off, i.e, walks away? Were you inside that courtroom? Did you understand all the evidence?Danger said:No, the issue is to point out that a woman can hide behind the "he beat me card" (with no evidence mind you) and voila she gets off for a serious attempted murder charge.
Funny because I never accused -you- of shaming me, even though I am clearly the minority here. And you follow every single questioning post I make, be it on gun control, or the elusive unicorn, misandry ... I am not walking away, to me, you are the one who's constantly walking away.Danger said:You are shaming because you are the first to throw out insults and the first to walk away from two reasonable questions, as I pointed out in this very post.
Yes, there are. And looking for what you want to believe isn't an effective way. In fact, it is known to be ineffective.Danger said:There are multiple ways to work on real problems, unfortunately we don't have the numbers required at this point to implement any real change. And so long as people like yourself refuse to answer questions and then begin on the shaming and insulting behavior, then it is unlikely to happen.
Woah, that's alot of lays.AAAgent said:It's a pretty safe general assumption. The majority of people that complain about women and feminism together are usually the ones that aren't getting laid and relate that to society being taken over by feminism. Are you saying that's not the case?
I highly doubt people that getting laid consistently complain about how society isn't catered to man? Heck, most men on the forum don't get laid consistently and they don't whine about how the west sucks and is feminized. They deal with it. Man is probably one of the few species out there that has the ability to learn and adapt. On top of that, we're also one of the fastest adapting species out there. People that get laid regularly understand this. Sh1t happens, you deal with it or work around it and continue moving forward. It's the really lazy people that feel entitled to have things and when it's not their way, they complain how it's somehow rigged.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Nah, I was getting laid laid laid laid back when I was an AFC, unfortunately though I was an LTR magnet and that's no way for a young man to live. Shiieeet, do I even strike you as someone who couldn't get laid laid laid laid laid even in my beta days? Give me some credit.AAAgent said:Tits, do you understand what the root word "brag" means.
I would have thought that since you weren't getting laid until you were 27, you would have been studying or something related educating yourself. Here, i'll lay it out for you (compliments of dictionary.com):
Sure man, but YOU? Your taking it to a whole new level. WowAAAgent said:Amen to that. Share the wealth tits because you sure as h3ll have the most lays here.
They say that a liberal is a conservative who has never been mugged. Same thing with the "f*ck and forget it" guys. They will f*ck and forget until one day some vindictive b*tch decides to ruin their life for whatever reason, and the state and the courts side with her because she is a woman.Jitterbug said:Usually it's the younger guys with the "fvck and forget" method. The d1ck rules and thinks. They'll come around. Or maybe not.
That is the very danger of having lots of young men NOT invested in the future of society. Our glorious leaders are doing a fine job to make sure that continues.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.