Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Woman eats couch cushions

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I saw that. Weird.

Did you see the other ones?

1)Woman that eats toilet paper
2)Woman in her 20's that sucks her thumb 24/7
3)Woman who complusively pulls her hair out
4)Woman who sleeps with her hair dryer (could be dangerous/fatal depending on what she uses the hair dryer for)

This stuff is all derivative of some type of obsessive compulsive disorder.
 

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5string said:
3)Woman who complusively pulls her hair out
I did the same thing when I had a scalp infection. It's not as much psychological as it is physical.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
I did the same thing when I had a scalp infection. It's not as much psychological as it is physical.
Well, I hope it grew back for you brother. Funny about this chick though. She pulled it out and ate it. Said she liked the taste of the folicles. Go figure.
 

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why is there always threads with crazy women in it in this section?
each time you see a crazy women/make themselves ridiculous/are laughable on tv you post it here?
why so..??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BBbardot said:
why is there always threads with crazy women in it in this section?
each time you see a crazy women/make themselves ridiculous/are laughable on tv you post it here?
why so..??
Really? I looked at the first page of Anything Else which has like 30 threads and it has

-one crazy woman who is suing because of a "texting accident"
-one thread on crazy male creepers
-one thread on the crazy things men do when they have no women in their lives

Nice try though.
 

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People see what they want to see.

There is a lot of different stuff in this section. It's pretty telling that you only notice 2 posts out of 50. Best advice I can offer you during your stay here - don't take anything posted to heart, this forum will chew up and spit out someone who is too sensitive.

Now you could ask why I post threads about crazy b-tches. That would be mainly due to the fact that I just dumped my insane girlfriend of 3 years and right now I think all women are nuts. It's just a phase - I'll get over it :)
 

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oh really?
what about the thread about teh women falling into a fontain,
what about the very glorious one making fun of the women with this disease that contrains her to eat all the time.
and then this one...
It's like a big trend. It's like posting videos of retarded poeple doing weird stuffs on a forum that talk about how to grow a mentally retarded kid. Video's making fun of black poeple on a republican forum^^doesn't look innocent.

pretty disturbing...
 

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BBbardot said:
oh really?
what about the thread about teh women falling into a fontain,
what about the very glorious one making fun of the women with this disease that contrains her to eat all the time.
and then this one...
It's like a big trend. It's like posting videos of retarded poeple doing weird stuffs on a forum that talk about how to grow a mentally retarded kid. Video's making fun of black poeple on a republican forum^^doesn't look innocent.

pretty disturbing...
-the woman falling into the fountain is the same woman who is suing, I mentioned her already, you can't count her twice.
-wait, first you said threads about "crazy women" and now you expand it to include women with genetic diseases. not the same thing.
-and then this one is already counted.

There are just as many threads bashing men as well. Nice try again. Maybe 3rd's the charm?
 

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Okay so that's 3 threads you mentioned, less than 5% of the posts, which means you are exaggerating.

I admit it, right now I have issues with women that I am sorting out. A lot of guys are here for the same reason. Most of what is posted here is not advice, it's catharsis for the poster to get through a difficult time, so there will be some fallout, resentment and even some misogyny at times. If these are the only posts you "always" see, then I can guarantee you will not enjoy your stay here.

Give us a little credit. Some of us have issues, but most of us are here because we love women and are looking for success in that area of our lives.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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