Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I do that with my friendslet's go out and try that new restaurant. Let's go outside and get some drinks.
How this actually differ from the first guy you described?responsible, self sufficient dude
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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The first guy only leaves the nest while having a woman, and goes from mama's basement straigth to buying a house with a woman he just met. Does this with no experience, not even understanding he is about to fail hard. After the fail he goes back to mama's basement waiting for the next woman to repeat the same mistakes.I do that with my friends
How this actually differ from the first guy you described?
Clear! Given the situation, I'm the second guy. What about you @Gamisch ?The first guy only leaves the nest while having a woman, and goes from mama's basement straigth to buying a house with a woman he just met. Does this with no experience, not even understanding he is about to fail hard. After the fail he goes back to mama's basement waiting for the next woman to repeat the same mistakes.
The second guy doesn't need anyone, and would rather have a woman having her own place. He is self sufficient, and woman will view him as " a warm bath" as they say in my native language.
Since many friends have this situation there are many failed couples still togheter just because they pay rent/mortgage for the roof above their heads.After the fail
And we are now too curios about what this meansa warm bath