"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Woman Don't Want A "Soulmate"

Meisterman

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Women don't want a soulmate who reflects everything about them and caters to their call at every waking moment. Women want a MAN WHO WILL LEAD!!!!! Women want a man who TAKES WHAT HE WANTS, when he wants to take it! Stop being a little beta b1tch! STOP drooling over some stupid chick when there are literally BILLIONS of them on this Earth. It sounds rough but it's true! Ultimately if you want to be with a girl you have to reflect what she wants to see in HER IDEAL PARTNER. And like I said, a woman's ideal partner is someone who DOESN'T GIVE A $}{17 if she leaves him or not. A woman's ideal partner is someone who is so confident and self-assured that he literally couldn't care less about some stupid broad waiting to suck his d1ck because he knows for certainty he could just go to someone else if he really wanted to. SHE needs to be the one who's scared of losing YOU, NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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shawn3789

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That's true. There is male and there is female. It applies to all species. The female catches the male. We live in a world today where the male catches the female. Why are relationships so screwed up nowadays?
 

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This is true except for the 'women don't want a soulmate' part. Women believe in soul mates as much as they believe in Prince Charming and fairy tales with happy endings. Be the guy you described and she will believe she's found her soul mate.
 

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Woman want men that are better than they are. The soul mate sh!t comes when you both in your late 60s.
 

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As far as I've been taught, women are supposed to be the submissive ones.

But it's sad today, a lot of men (not all, just a large number) of men are being submissive, worshipping women, putting them first, pedestalizing them, spoiling them, so on and so forth. And it's real sad. Instead of putting their own life first and trying to actually ENJOY life, you got guys who just let women take over their own reality.

Women take advantage over weak men. But can we blame women for being the way they are? It's after the weak men started acting the way they are that women started acting this way, correct? There's no one to blame here but the weak man, in the way I see it. Still, I don't think the behavior of the female is acceptable.

With that being said, a lot of men need to reinvent their whole entire lifestyle. It's sad how controlling women are of society today. :(
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Meisterman said:
Women don't want a soulmate who reflects everything about them and caters to their call at every waking moment.
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A woman's ideal partner is someone who is so confident and self-assured that he literally couldn't care less about some stupid broad waiting to suck his d1ck because he knows for certainty he could just go to someone else if he really wanted to.
Surely there is some middle ground here somewhere between being a doormat who caters to their every call and not caring less about some stupid broad who wants to suck his d1ck. I can't believe either one of those is a woman's dream guy.
 
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