Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Woman Don't Want A "Soulmate"

Meisterman

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Women don't want a soulmate who reflects everything about them and caters to their call at every waking moment. Women want a MAN WHO WILL LEAD!!!!! Women want a man who TAKES WHAT HE WANTS, when he wants to take it! Stop being a little beta b1tch! STOP drooling over some stupid chick when there are literally BILLIONS of them on this Earth. It sounds rough but it's true! Ultimately if you want to be with a girl you have to reflect what she wants to see in HER IDEAL PARTNER. And like I said, a woman's ideal partner is someone who DOESN'T GIVE A $}{17 if she leaves him or not. A woman's ideal partner is someone who is so confident and self-assured that he literally couldn't care less about some stupid broad waiting to suck his d1ck because he knows for certainty he could just go to someone else if he really wanted to. SHE needs to be the one who's scared of losing YOU, NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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shawn3789

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That's true. There is male and there is female. It applies to all species. The female catches the male. We live in a world today where the male catches the female. Why are relationships so screwed up nowadays?
 

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This is true except for the 'women don't want a soulmate' part. Women believe in soul mates as much as they believe in Prince Charming and fairy tales with happy endings. Be the guy you described and she will believe she's found her soul mate.
 

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Woman want men that are better than they are. The soul mate sh!t comes when you both in your late 60s.
 

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As far as I've been taught, women are supposed to be the submissive ones.

But it's sad today, a lot of men (not all, just a large number) of men are being submissive, worshipping women, putting them first, pedestalizing them, spoiling them, so on and so forth. And it's real sad. Instead of putting their own life first and trying to actually ENJOY life, you got guys who just let women take over their own reality.

Women take advantage over weak men. But can we blame women for being the way they are? It's after the weak men started acting the way they are that women started acting this way, correct? There's no one to blame here but the weak man, in the way I see it. Still, I don't think the behavior of the female is acceptable.

With that being said, a lot of men need to reinvent their whole entire lifestyle. It's sad how controlling women are of society today. :(
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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zekko

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Meisterman said:
Women don't want a soulmate who reflects everything about them and caters to their call at every waking moment.
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A woman's ideal partner is someone who is so confident and self-assured that he literally couldn't care less about some stupid broad waiting to suck his d1ck because he knows for certainty he could just go to someone else if he really wanted to.
Surely there is some middle ground here somewhere between being a doormat who caters to their every call and not caring less about some stupid broad who wants to suck his d1ck. I can't believe either one of those is a woman's dream guy.
 
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