"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Woman don't care about looks? BS

Don Juanabbe

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At the same token they are also very good at hiding their interest signs. I can't tell you how many women I've met that pretended they weren't interested, only to find out they were gushing about me behind my back.

There's such a thing as being too good looking and it can really be a pain for some guys.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good looking people get better jobs b/c theres a stereotype that goodlookin people are more trustworthy. However, anybody with a great personality can break the barriers and be seen as trustworthy. To the people that think not being handsome has cursed their lives: Just by having thoughts like that even good looking people have cursed their lives. Handsome guys have good lives because they've gained confidence and personality with their looks. On the other hand, ugly guys get the ugly chicks because its hard for them to have confidence in themselves. If an ugly or average person had been brought up with the thought that he's handsome, he would have that confidence in himself, which would be reinforced by grls being attracted to him because of that confidence.
A good example of this guys from the service, they could be ugly shyts when they start but when they come out they always get the best chicks because their confidence is thru the roof.
 

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this is funny ****...


you guys must be the group of guys on here who are KBJ...and never get laid.

if you havent seen my pic..im about a 7.

so Im not ugly.
but I am 5 6 and a half...and I get women all the way up to the infamous 10...if such a thing exists.


can a 4 get a 9? probably not..can he get a 8? yes

a 5 could get a 9 and a 5 and half or higher could get 10.

maybe if you werent scared *****es when it comes to women..you would know better
 
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