"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Woman don't care about looks? BS

Don Juanabbe

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At the same token they are also very good at hiding their interest signs. I can't tell you how many women I've met that pretended they weren't interested, only to find out they were gushing about me behind my back.

There's such a thing as being too good looking and it can really be a pain for some guys.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good looking people get better jobs b/c theres a stereotype that goodlookin people are more trustworthy. However, anybody with a great personality can break the barriers and be seen as trustworthy. To the people that think not being handsome has cursed their lives: Just by having thoughts like that even good looking people have cursed their lives. Handsome guys have good lives because they've gained confidence and personality with their looks. On the other hand, ugly guys get the ugly chicks because its hard for them to have confidence in themselves. If an ugly or average person had been brought up with the thought that he's handsome, he would have that confidence in himself, which would be reinforced by grls being attracted to him because of that confidence.
A good example of this guys from the service, they could be ugly shyts when they start but when they come out they always get the best chicks because their confidence is thru the roof.
 

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this is funny ****...


you guys must be the group of guys on here who are KBJ...and never get laid.

if you havent seen my pic..im about a 7.

so Im not ugly.
but I am 5 6 and a half...and I get women all the way up to the infamous 10...if such a thing exists.


can a 4 get a 9? probably not..can he get a 8? yes

a 5 could get a 9 and a 5 and half or higher could get 10.

maybe if you werent scared *****es when it comes to women..you would know better
 
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