"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Woman comedian is triggered whilst in Canada

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Desdinova

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“What I experienced wasn’t heckling,” Grant tells Yahoo Canada News. “It was harassment. I’ve never experienced anything like that before.”
Poor baby. Good comedians can laugh at their misfortunes. She must have been pretty 5hitty to be heckled and unable to take it with a grain of salt.

The man was an employee of TC Transcontinental Printing, the largest printer in Canada. He’s been suspended pending an investigation of his behaviour.
Umm... why???? He didn't do this at work. If that kind of 5hit keeps happening in this country, you won't be able to get drunk without getting suspended from work. His place of employment shouldn't be getting involved.
 

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wow that is BS, that guy from the printing company is about to be emasculated if he wants to keep his source of income. shame on that comedian slore and shame on the guys company for white knighting
 

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One would think that if the "harassment" was so unintelligent and repetitive, as alluded to by the article, these comedians (who get paid to talk, so one assumes they're pretty good at coming up with words) would be able to come up with some clever re-frames.

But they can't. They'd rather blame the world (and force the world to change), instead of increase their game.
 

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I'm taking the opposite view. The guy was a ****ing idiot to talk like that at a work function.

I'm just shocked that nobody told him to STFU.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EVERY comic gets heckled, it's part of the job. It's clear as day that stand up comedy is not for her. Try heckling Lisa Lampanelli and see what she does to you. This is just a semi pro that folded under the heckling of some tool in a country club. Imagine a full fledged comedy club like The Comedy Store or The Ice House. Gone!

She's probably gonna ride the feminism boat right into the rocks with this one.
 

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The guy was telling her that either he or his buddy was going to **** her. That's not heckling. I have no problem with her calling him out.
 
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